Are there any subtle ways to find out if someone is interested in dd/lg?

[palefairyprincess]

First of all sorry if this isn't the right place to post this or if this topic has already been covered. My interest in dd/lg is something that is extremely personal/private to me and I can't really see myself talking about it without the other person bringing it up. I've been chatting with a guy online for the purpose of friendship (neither of us is in the ideal place for a relationship right now) but we both are very interested in the other as a potential romantic partner down the line (once we each get our shit together). The thing is, he has repeatedly called me "little girl" as a term of endearment and said things like "sleep well little girl, I'll be here when you wake" but hasn't really given any indication that he's into dd/lg or even aware of it. So I'm not sure if I'm reading too much into this and seeing what I want to see or if it's possible he hasn't revealed his own interest in dd/lg either. Do you think there's some way I could subtly hint at it in a way that's indirect enough that it would go over his head if he's not familiar with dd/lg? We haven't had any conversations about sexual/relationship preferences because as I said, we're just friends for the time being but I'm soo curious. Any ideas/advice would be appreciated.

[Guest Thomas]

Personally I'd say that "little girl" on its own isn't enough to indicate an interest. Terms of endearment like "baby", "princess", and other names that we (in this community) might use are also very common in vanilla relationships too.

 

Short of asking outright, you could try dropping hints like mentioning that you have, I don't know, a Disney Princess blanket or cuddly toys to see how he reacts. If he thinks it's really cute, it's still not a guarantee but it's a good indication. Some guys - and I include myself in this - simply aren't aware of DD/LG until they really start to explore it. Perhaps he isn't aware of it right now, but may still be able to be brought round.

 

Best of luck!

[Guest Ginger-Kit]

I can't really say I have experience in trying to find out if a guy is into DDlg, personally, but I was doing 'Little' things before my bf and I found out about it. Asking for coloring books and stuffies, watching Disney movies, acting extremely childish at times. I naturally fell into the role of being Little and my bf naturally assumed the position of my Daddy. So, you could just do or say things that would naturally happen when you're in Little-space and see how he reacts to it? Though, like Thomas said, that's no real assurance that he's into it. I'd wait a little bit to bring it up, maybe see how he takes to your interests first?

[Guest Jennyanydots]

Have you responded to "Goodnight, little girl" by saying "goodnight, Daddy"? If so, you might be able to get him to admit something that way! Lol. If he's aware of DDlg he might really get a kick out of hearing that.

 

Otherwise, I agree with GingerKit; let it progress naturally by doing what you would normally do. Start little by introducing him to your stuffies or whatever "little" stuff you collect/love. You could even do that now, just to make conversation. If he goes with it, move on to show him coloring pages and if he likes that, ask him to pick one out for you to color for him...start small and move slow and you'll get your answers. Good luck!