Not a 24/7 Little?

[princebambi96]

Am I doing this wrong? From what I understand (I could be wrong) CG/l is a 24/7 dynamic. I'm not a 24/7 little. Does that mean I'm not fitting the dynamic right? Will I be less likely to find a caregiver if I'm not in little space 24/7? Don't get me wrong, I feel safest in little space, but I can't be there all the time. Is that wrong? I'm so lost guys. 

[Guest WildBunny]

Hey there!! I'm not into the dynamic 24/7 because it just wouldnt work for my Daddy and I. All relationships are as different as the people in them. Don't feel pressured to conform to any preconceived notions or ideals that many people like to assign to certain labels. Just my two cents.  

[LittleGlenn]

It's definitely not wrong princebambi! Everyone has their own comfort zones in what they like and how much they want it to affect their lifestyle. There is no right or wrong in what your presences are in LittleSpace or how much power exchange there is between the person you are in a relationship with. See what works best between Little/middle and Big and focus on what makes you both happy in the relationship.

[princebambi96]

Thank you guys so much! I feel a lot better now. 

[Harley_Quinn]

Not 24/7 DD/LG Here either. Daddy can't handle it haha plus we both work and have jobs, nothings wrong with adulting as a little

[littlemonstergirl]

I'm not a 24/7 little either and my daddy isn't a 24/7 daddy either. For me it just wouldn't work, being little is part of who I am but there are lots of parts to who I am not just being little. Not to mention I have to go to be an adult and do adult things like cleaning, working, and going to class. 

 

Every relationship is different, no cg/l relationship is going to look exactly like another one. What matters is that you and your partner are happy and healthy! 

[princess gremlin]

I could never ever be a 24/7 little! I love being in little space, but I can't feel that way all of the time, and being a little is just a small part of who I am among a bunch of other important awesome parts! I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with a daddy who only liked me because of my little side - I'd need a daddy who liked every other part of who I am too! The part of me that loves Halloween and scary things, the part that likes going to the beach and going on summer roadtrips, the part that loves funny hipster movies and cool Tumblr stuff, the part that LOVES big concerts in the city and loud rock music, and even the part of me that likes getting drunk and playing Cards Against Humanity with friends! 

[sunshine91]

i think its hard to be 24/7 little. We need to being "adult" when we work and i love discuss about some serious issue too with my friend. And honestly i need sometimes to just me and myself only. Not that i don't love my daddy but some people just need "me time"

[BunBunBubbles]

So glad to see someone else posted this question. I was wondering the same thing. Thanks for posting, don't feel so alone anymore.

[Butterflygirl]

Well now I feel silly cause I just posted something similar here: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/7796-butterflys-adventure-into-self-discovery-aka-help/ 

 

I guess not being 24/7 is much more common than I thought! 

[acebaby]

this is very reassuring! i thought it was a given to be a 24/7 little, i give major props to any who are.

i just couldn't do it, while i think i am happiest in little space, i still need reality, it keeps me from getting too caught up in all this. as much as i hate it i am an adult and the hard adult world is out there!