Having a 2nd Little/Little having a "sibling"

[Lazarus_1_506]

This was brought up as a interest by my little, and it made me think....

Does anyone do this?

 

Is it weird?

 

For little's, does jealousy become a problem?

 

For daddies, do you find it stressing to have more than one little, finding time to devote to both of them? or does it come pretty natural...

 

I ask this because if I am going to even consider it, I wanna think it through first....

 

[DaddysLolita]

It does exist and isn't weird.

 

I've never had a "sibling" in this context, I'm way to protective and needy of my Daddy to consider it.

 

I'd assume as long as things are agreed upon and clear by all 3 of you, it'd be alright. As far as jealousy, I think it depends on the people involved.

 

I can't answer for Daddies, my Daddy does so much for me I think he'd be exhausted if he had another little lol.

 

Good luck!

[Lazarus_1_506]

Thats what I was thinking too, I think its like when she is at a FROYO bar, she thinks she wants ALLL the toppings, but in reality she can only handle a few bites of them.  I think she would like it for a sec then get upset when she realized I need to give the other little just as much attention...

[Guest Princess Dusty]

Coming from someone who did it. It can be extremely hard. For all parties. The main thing is, if it does happen, be 100% honest about it and don't hide it. Hiding and lieing about it is your worst enemy. Also if it happens you  have to make sure that the attention is spread evenly. Let's just say, there's a reason I'm no longer in that relationship. It wasn't a good thing for me, but I don't begrudge other people for doing it either.

[littlemonstergirl]

It definitely can work but it takes a lot of communication and hard work. Jealousy is normal, I get jealous of the girl me and Daddy see even though I know better, we just talk about it nice and calmly and reassure each other. We also make time to spend one on one time with each other just as much as we do all together. 

 

I will say the girl we have been seeing for awhile doesn't strongly identify as a little, she is more into pet play and being submissive. I will say as a little having a kitty friend to play with is a lot of fun, and adds a level of emotional/sexual satisfaction to have someone to interact with that is just as playful as me without being in the caregiver role. But it is a lot of work, and it takes a lot of talking, communication and understanding on all ends. Everyone has to be on the same page. 

 

As for the Daddy side, I can't really answer but I know my Daddy really enjoys having another involved with us, and I know as a couple together we would like to find the right person one day to join us and eventually we all settle down together, but everyone is different, and you have to decide what you can handle. 

 

I wish you and your little good on this new adventure if y'all choose to take it! 

[Guest Thomas]

As long as all parties involved agree and commit to it, then sure. We're all here because we want to find what works best for us. There's nothing wrong or weird with any of the things which have been discussed.

 

From a personal point of view, I would find it hard to manage two littles at a time! I'd be concerned about jealousy/envy between the two of them. If it was something very close to my little's heart, I would be willing to give it a shot. But (and again, personal viewpoint only) I wouldn't be able to 'share' my little/partner with someone else, i.e. another Daddy. I'm just not wired up for that.