Guest Pouty Kitten Posted March 4, 2016 Report Posted March 4, 2016 I don't believe that this indicates that you are a bad little. It sounds like your partner is not actively listening to you. I think it would be best in this situation to really sit down with Caregiver and express the same thing you've said here. Your Caregiver may also be stressed out about something (which doesn't give them the excuse to act out on you). I also don't agree with being in trouble for bringing up your feelings- that can turn out to be very abusive because nobody should feel bad about their feelings. I am also trying to take into consideration the amount of time you two have been together. If I am understanding correctly, this has just started happening? How did you Caregiver react before this incident? 1
Guest buddhagirl Posted March 5, 2016 Report Posted March 5, 2016 This isn't a cg/l issue, it's an relationship issue. Consider stepping out of the dynamic and talking about it. Your needs and feelings are important and you're not getting what you need. It has nothing to do with being little. You are who you are and you need what you need and there are people in the world that will treat you way you deserve and need to thrive and be happy.
sweetgirl Posted March 6, 2016 Report Posted March 6, 2016 I've been with my daddy for almost 3 years and these past few months he's been getting mad at me a lot. He does a lot of yelling and swearing and says mean things. He spanks me a lot and blows up over any topic I bring up. After a few hours he goes back to being sweet and says sorry. I don't know feel as safe afterwards though...
lil' one Posted March 8, 2016 Report Posted March 8, 2016 I've been with my daddy for almost 3 years and these past few months he's been getting mad at me a lot. He does a lot of yelling and swearing and says mean things. He spanks me a lot and blows up over any topic I bring up. After a few hours he goes back to being sweet and says sorry. I don't know feel as safe afterwards though... Hi, sweetgirl! I'm really super concerned about you! It doesn't sound like your daddy is nice. I have to push Papa really far to get a spanking for punishment and he never is angry when he punishes me. Also, I never feel unsafe with Papa - EVER!! Please, be safe. Reach out and get help if you are in danger. Do not ignore it. Please.
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