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<3 Hi this is my first post even thou I have been here for a tad bit :)

 

<3 I am not sure if this is a common occurrence for couples here but I need to add context first, here I go "Story Time~"

 

<3 So me and daddy have been SO for a while and a few months back I had the guts to tell him about me being little. He was very very surprised due to the fact that I acted adulty around ppl.

(I take a long time to let people into my heart) 

He said he has never heard of it and didn't think it was his thing but he would do it for me anyhow.

I am starting to get comfy about being little with him a few weeks ago and can be pouty, super loud, and just be me. 

 

<3 I've started to notice that when I go into little mode he seems to tire out easily and after a while I get fed up and pouty in a bad way and it completely brings me out of little space in an instant.

I understand that taking care of a Little is a BIGGGGGG job and I really really happy daddy does it for me...but it makes me hurt on the inside. He seems to enjoy my little side for only a moment.

The big problem is that once he gets tired of me being little even if it forcefully pulls me out of little space he doesn't even seem to want to hang with me still cause he is so tired. He usually just decides to go home when my littleness wears thin at him. We always go to sleep together over the phone, but these days he is to tired or just wants to sleep alone. 

 

<3 I know he still loves me to death, I don't want the solution to be going back to hiding my little side and reading dd/lg stories online to get my fill.

 

<3 I have no idea how to solve this problem :(

 

<3 Anyone in similar condition or knows how to solve this?

 

 

Guest Pouty Kitten
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Does he only get tired when you are in little space? Maybe he doesn't fully understand little space and what it means to you. It sounds like he's disinterested but I need more information. Does he work a lot? Where does his tiredness stem from? Have you asked him? Have you tried telling him how this hurts you?
Guest NewYorkDaddy
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Find out what he responds to positively and see if you like it. You can be his girlfriend and be adorable without going full on BabysRUs; but decide if that could be something you two would be ok with.

I suppose your daddy could have a stressful day and sometimes we men find the comfort of a woman to be therapeutic and perhaps this little space situation is not stress releasing for him. If you are close by I recommend cooking him dinner and maybe a massage. If you spoil him, he will spoil you and feel at ease.

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Does he only get tired when you are in little space? Maybe he doesn't fully understand little space and what it means to you. It sounds like he's disinterested but I need more information. Does he work a lot? Where does his tiredness stem from? Have you asked him? Have you tried telling him how this hurts you?

Yes he does only get tired when I am in little space. I have to agree that he is not that interested since he told me that dd/lg was not his thing but he would do his best to be my caregiver. He does not work but goes to college as a full time student. I think his tiredness stems from the fact that I might be in little space a little longer than he likes about 2 hours. I have asked him about it and he is unsure about why he is so tired from it. He does know I get upsetti spagetti about it.

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