I feel like I'm bad at being a little.

[PastelKitten]

Hello everybody!

 

I've been in this forum for a couple of weeks now, I got a lot of inspirations and ideas.

It's wonderful to know that I can share my interests with other people who won't judge me!

But I've been pretty insecure lately, I just can't get over the thought that I am too annoying for this community, I just feel like I'm too sexual and I just feel like that everyone's way better than me.

It hurts that I feel like I am not allowed to go into little space, because I just feel like I do things wrong.

I can't find any little friends, I just think that nobody really wants to talk to me here.

 

Ya'll have a lovely day!

Nicole.

[LittleJosh]

Hi. Im Josh and on here my little age is 4-6 (mostly 5)

 

It's ok to have mixed feelings cause sometimes things seem scarey, expecially around new people and if your just learning about being little or new to the whole dd/lg life. It took me awhile but im feeling ALOT more comfortable now. I'm mostly shy too and can get scared easily sometimes.

 

Dont worry about going into little space and doing something wrong! I'm 5 in my little space and im ALLOWED to do wrong things cause im only 5! Thats one of the best things about little space. There is NOONE here who  is going to judge you right or wrong, but they will 'guide' you as necesary of course cause you are only little! Go with it, let yourself be free as a little and dont worry! This is a safe place for ALL littles!

 

I hope that helps!

 

Josh

[DaddysLolita]

Hello everybody!

 

I've been in this forum for a couple of weeks now, I got a lot of inspirations and ideas.

It's wonderful to know that I can share my interests with other people who won't judge me!

But I've been pretty insecure lately, I just can't get over the thought that I am too annoying for this community, I just feel like I'm too sexual and I just feel like that everyone's way better than me.

It hurts that I feel like I am not allowed to go into little space, because I just feel like I do things wrong.

I can't find any little friends, I just think that nobody really wants to talk to me here.

 

Ya'll have a lovely day!

Nicole.

Awwww, I doubt you're to "annoying".

 

It's okay to feel shy, insecure, etc..

 

As for sexuality, everybody's different here.

 

Just try interacting with some members, maybe consider popping into chat and saying hello.

 

Also, why do you feel like you're not allowed to go into little space? There's no right or wrong ways to do things, everybody's space is different. Please don't feel like you can't enjoy your little space. If it feels right to you, it's good!

 

<3

[Guest littlebitty]

Nicole, what on earth would make you feel not special or not good enough at anything? Taken I know nothing about you apart from your, age location and you have the most adorable profile I've seen yet, you seem polite and well spoken and have a daddy (who I will presume your are happy with).

 

I'm gonna sound like a right old dinosaur here (and I do most days as I seem to only be able to find teenagers on here that make me feel all creaky and old hehe) but your just 19. You have everything out in front of you, your in a time in your life your just coming into your own so why are you so worried?

 

And let's talk about annoying for one minute, we all are! We all have ugly flaws and annoying habits (I know I have , I have OCD and spend my life checking locks and repeating words so they sound correct, I'm a big annoying mess sometimes) but we all have positives. It is no competition in here or in life as to who is the cutest, who is the prettiest, the most creative and whoever or whatever made you feel that way is not worth your energy or time.

 

When you say it hurts as your not allowed to go into little space, how do you mean? You find it hard to or someone isn't allowing you to?

I hope your daddy makes you feel every bit as special as all little girls should. And serioulsy I'm not just saying this for no reason I hate seeing young women feeling this down and insecure, I know how it feels. If you want to chat just send me a request.

 

P.S Too sexual? Ok ddlg is not all innocence and fairy dust (as much as I love it) it's a form of kink in its own right. Some of us are highly sexual and some of us are not.

[FritterKitten]

I feel the same way dear OP. I feel like I am much too annoying for this website and have been considering leaving. However you seem quite lovely, but I have abrasive tendencies. As for the sexual thing there are many littles who go both ways, there are hypersexual littles, littles who are "vanilla" and littles who are asexual and everything in between! Just be yourself and that is the best little you can be! And just as a random note I see your location is Germany so I am gonna be a bit of a dork but go Germany!! i want to visit there so badly one day! my family is from there!!  If you ever need to chat feel free to shoot me a friend request/message! If I do not answer it is only because I have left this website. 

[Guest cookie_crumble_princess]

I feel the same way you do, PastelKitten. I think you should take into consideration if your feelings stem from past feeling of unworthiness, maybe in a past relationship or even as a child when parents were giving you enough attention. It usually comes from somewhere and your are quite possibly projecting that feeling because it is a subliminal expectancy. You can always add me as a friend. I see you only posted twice, try out the forum for a little while longer and post some replies. Commenting on post gives us all a chance to know you better and you'll possibly pick up friends that way. 

[LolitasDaddy]

I think the key word everyone has is that the FEEL like they are too annoying. This is all perception. There are lots of people who would like you just fine, I'm sure. Try and relax, and not worry about fitting in, just be yourself and people who you should be friends with can get to know the real you.

[PastelKitten]

I'm so thankful for those comforting answers!

I thought about it a whole lot, and I came to the conclusion that there's REALLY just no right or wrong.

EVERYONE is special and really unique, and that's totally fine!

I just have to stop being so harsh to myself.

Thanks again, you all cheered me up! ✿