I need someone to explain brat taming

[Guest starrflower]

I have been googling this and finding certain answers, but I wanted to ask the community here.  Especially ask the daddies/mommies what your relationship is like with your brat.  Are there different styles?  I guess it would depend on the personality.  

[Pure Heart Dom]

Hello! I saw your thread and figured I could assist.

Of course there are different types of brats! It all depends on the type of person as well as what is wanted out of the relationship. In my understanding, there are brats that enjoy and stick to the bratty role, because there is something achieved by him/her as the brat. For example, some brats enjoy being bratty because they enjoy being punished and reprimanded and "put in their place." It's the desired outcome for bratty submissives that thrive on that being controlled feeling. It may be tied in with masochism fetishes but maybe not. Some subs are bratty to test the limits/authority of their doms and enjoy the power shift that ends with punishment to reestablish dominance. They want to feel completely safe and cared about and punishment reinforces this for them. Some are bratty just to be cheeky and mischievous lol. I'm sure for some, it makes them feel more little/middle. Some do it because it keeps the relationship interesting, with a dom that always has to stay on their toes and keep their sub in line. And some do it to get/keep attention on them.

I'm positive there are other incentives for bratty behavior. I, personally, enjoy brattiness because I find it refreshing and playfully cute when subbies try to act out. It could be a number of things, or a combination of many. Either way, that's my understanding of things and I hope it provided you with something to take lol (I do ramble sometimes about nothing). Have a good day and happy valentine's day! ^w^

[Guest starrflower]

~ Happy Valentines Day to you too!~ yes what you said helps to explain it Pure Heart Dom.  It's really nice to know that there are daddies who will stick with their little while they are having a brat attack    the teen brat seems like it would be the toughest.  I am just guessing here.  This is such new territory for me.  If a daddy uses loving domination in a time like this it would make a little feel loved.  This is how I would feel

[Pure Heart Dom]

Yeah! Much like yourself, I'm sure the punishment as a result of brattiness reaffirms in the sub that they are loved. That their actions are being monitored and there are repercussions for negative behaviors. Doms are supposed to be all about their sub's growth and betterment as an individual; so the sub should trust his/her dom that punishment is for their benefit, as well as rules and rewards and such

[Eliza]

"Of course there are different types of brats! It all depends on the type of person as well as what is wanted out of the relationship. In my understanding, there are brats that enjoy and stick to the bratty role, because there is something achieved by him/her as the brat. For example, some brats enjoy being bratty because they enjoy being punished and reprimanded and "put in their place." It's the desired outcome for bratty submissives that thrive on that being controlled feeling. It may be tied in with masochism fetishes but maybe not. Some subs are bratty to test the limits/authority of their doms and enjoy the power shift that ends with punishment to reestablish dominance. They want to feel completely safe and cared about and punishment reinforces this for them."

That's how I am and my master doesn't get that when I am trying to be bratty and test him and see how far I can go he always assumes I had a bad day or something is wrong or he doesn't even notice it sometimes I don't know if I should be saying that here but yeah everything Pure Heart Dom said is completely true.

[PastelKitten]

That's how I am and my master doesn't get that when I am trying to be bratty and test him and see how far I can go he always assumes I had a bad day or something is wrong or he doesn't even notice it sometimes I don't know if I should be saying that here but yeah everything Pure Heart Dom said is completely true.

 

Maybe you two should talk about what you wish for exactly and discuss a tiny ittle bittle!

[princess gremlin]

For me, bratting is definitely about testing limits in a cutesy way and doing it in order to get small, instantaneous types of punishment, like spanking or man-handling - as an example, being chased, caught, picked up, and carried over someone's shoulder is the best CUTEST thing in the world. Bratting for me is a very giggly kind of thing, and not mean or malicious at all. Sure it's fun to be difficult, but I wouldn't actually want to make my daddy angry for real. It's all about having a playful dynamic that includes that type of thing! I also love being put in my place in the end.

 

For example, if my daddy were to tell me I couldn't have ice cream because it was time for bed, but I really really wanted some, I might still run like hell downstairs to try to get some!   Of course if I were to get spanked for it, I'd be reasonably very sorry, but the dash for ice cream was still worth it! Another good example is if it was time to leave the playground but I didn't want to - I'd probably try to run away. But after awhile, and after daddy counting to 3, I'd probably run out and pout and stomp my foot and leave when it was time.

 

(I don't have a daddy but those were all hypothetical good bratting situations/fantasies for me  )

[Guest starrflower]

That's how I am and my master doesn't get that when I am trying to be bratty and test him and see how far I can go he always assumes I had a bad day or something is wrong

This would be tough if a daddy doesn't know his little has brat tendencies. I can empathize with you. Pastelkitten has good advice about communication. Is your daddy easy to talk to?

 

Bratting for me is a very giggly kind of thing, and not mean or malicious at all. Sure it's fun to be difficult, but I wouldn't actually want to make my daddy angry for real. It's all about having a playful dynamic that includes that type of thing! I also love being put in my place in the end.

I can see the allure of being a playful brat. It's so hard to just be myself with this sort of thing. It may take meeting a daddy I feel really comfortable with. My bratty self is also a sad and angry teen. Not cutsie at all. This side of me needs taming. And a lot of love