My daddy and diapers

[Kittenkisses248]

Hello! So I have a predicament. I love diapers I love the soft feeling and the security of them. My daddy knows and he let's me wear them but he isn't really comfortable around them. He gets kinda squemish it seems and won't really touch it or aknowlege I'm wearing one. Since he isn't interested in them its fine since he let's me wear them. My problem is I don't want to make him uncomfortable when I do wear them. Doesn't anyone have any advice? Should I just let him pretend its not there and keep it as my lite secret under my clothes? I'm not sure how to approach this. We have talked about it and he is "ok" with them but then he changes the subject very quickly. Has anyone gone through this?

[Millemusen]

Wiii!! I love diapers to!!!!!!!

 

Do you know why he is uncomfortable?

[Kittenkisses248]

No I don't he won't talk to me about it. He just keeps changing the subject!

[Millemusen]

But he have too if you can't speak with him you can't do anything...:/ you have to feel him your feelings or maybe stop? Its a really difficult situation, because you have to chose what is must important thing for you? Him or you ? that's is the only I have to say :/

[babyrae]

If I were you I'd try sitting him down and explaining why diapers make you happy. He doesn't have to drool over them or get turned on or anything, but if he's your partner it's his responsibility to accept the things that make you happy, even if he doesn't share that feeling. I just started wearing diapers occasionally and my Daddy isn't into them sexually (nor am I, it's just a comfort thing) but he knows that it's something that makes me happy, so he supports it. It's an unconventional thing, and it's not for everybody, but he should still try to make you feel good when you wear them.

Good luck, I hope everything works out!

[LittlePrinceWilly]

I love diapes too! Maybe try a cloth diaper. They're a little more expensive, but you get to use them more. and also dont get the crinkle sounds, but they're softer. 

[Big Red]

Just browsing about. Some people dislike the feeling or even the thought of certain fabrics.

I for example hate the feeling of pure cotten. Cotten balls, flannel or fleece have the same effect on me as nails on a chalk board. So a long shot, but it might just be the fabric and you should try switching to other types with a plastic, or no plastic outer.

 

The second is far more likely, and that is that he simply doesn't like the concept of them or what they are for sadly :/ If such is the case work on getting him use to them by getting something in between like goodnites or training pants. Build up his tolerance till it becomes more acceptance. See if he will role play potty training to have you use them less but work for such, and if all else fails you might simply be stuck with a daddy who wont like your padded state. It happens but know there are many other possibility for comfort.

[sushishui]

The second is far more likely, and that is that he simply doesn't like the concept of them or what they are for sadly :/ If such is the case work on getting him use to them by getting something in between like goodnites or training pants. Build up his tolerance till it becomes more acceptance. See if he will role play potty training to have you use them less but work for such, and if all else fails you might simply be stuck with a daddy who wont like your padded state. It happens but know there are many other possibility for comfort.

As a Daddy who isn't comfortable with diapers, I'll second this.

 

We're taught from an early age that poop is disgusting, and diapers are linked at an early age with poop.

 

There was actually an experiment conducted on this in 1986, where something perfectly clean and healthy was "contaminated" in some way that didn't make it any less clean and healthy. For example, they cleaned and sterilized a toilet and touched food to it, and they shaped fudge so it looked like dog poop -- and people didn't want to eat either one, even though both were perfectly clean and healthy, just because they had been associated with poop in their minds.

Edited April 10, 2016 by sushishui