"Big" isn't big, "little" isn't little

[littlelyna422]

My old Daddy was 6'5, and compared to my 5'4, much larger than me. I liked it because I felt safe and little, and he could envelope me. The guy that I'm currently seeing, who may become my Daddy, is 5'5 and slender. I'm having a hard time imagining him being a dominate "daddy", and I have felt self conscious about my own size (I'm average, but he's so slender, I'm slightly bigger than him). Does anyone have tips or experience being with a Daddy who is the same size, or smaller than you?

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

I don't have any experience in this but this has everything to do with personality & how he presents himself to you. If he is dominant, then it should show through his personality. 

 

I understand that everyone has their personal preferences so if his height/size is important to you, then I don't think you are compatible with him. If you can see past this, then you won't have a problem. He can still hold you and show you his love no matter what size he is.

[Guest starrflower]

I hope you give it a chance and spend more time getting to know him.  The two of you may be really compatible.  

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

I always thought I needed a big, huge daddy.

Then I met my daddy, who is about half an inch taller than me. Body shape (apart from being unattracted to skinny or overweight) never bothered me. He is about an average build.

I now realise it doesn't matter. He towers above me in all ways other than actual physical height.

I could not be with someone shorter than me, but other than that, it really doesn't matter.

[hbear]

I feel like that sometimes. Cause my daddy is maybe 5'7" compared to my 5'5". And he is very skinny compared to my curvy.

 

But I don't think you should base his ability to be dominant on something like that. My daddy is DEFINITELY dominant. Way more dominant than I would have thought by just looking at him.

 

Try to take your mind off the "size" difference and just focus on him

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

I don't have any experience in this but this has everything to do with personality & how he presents himself to you. If he is dominant, then it should show through his personality. 

 

I understand that everyone has their personal preferences so if his height/size is important to you, then I don't think you are compatible with him. If you can see past this, then you won't have a problem. He can still hold you and show you his love no matter what size he is.

 

Pouty is 100% right. My Daddy is an inch shorter than me but it's never been a big issue for me because his personality is so dominant. 

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Oh god yeah. He was up a ladder the other day doing some work, I was holding it for him. I said, all dreamy like "I love you being above me" he just gave me that look and said "I'm ALWAYS above you" sigh.....and yes, he is. Height does not equate to dominance. Attitude and character does.