Little Girl needs help.

[Millemusen]

Hey everyone!

 

Few moths ago, I found out that I was a little. I didn't know it was a thing that a person loves diapers and little things ... And then get a little bit confused by myself because, I was thinking I was a some crazy woman... Then I scearh on it and found out that ddlg was my thing!! I really love it! Or ...

I have never tried...

 

That's the problem .. Because I really want to.. But my boyfriend.. Yeah his not into it... And I really wanna try it, just so I could say "I like it"

But I want do it by myself, I need a caregiver, a person who can push me or guid me? Because I really wanna try this ...

 

Someone who maybe can guid me or tell me how I'm gonna try this????

[Rasmoo]

Did you tell your boyfriend about your interest? You should also consider whether your boyfriend would be okay with you having a caregiver or the like.

[Millemusen]

My boyfriend knows that I'm into it, and I asked him about but he wasn't interested.... He just want to have a normal relationship and I accepted that, but when you have something you never have tried and really want to but your partner won't... I don't know what to do ..

[Rasmoo]

Well, if your boyfriend really doesn't want it you have to decide what's most important to you. We can't really help you with that

[penny]

Talk to him about the possibility of finding someone else who would be willing to play as your caregiver. There are daddies out there looking for strictly platonic relationships with their littles but you have to talk to your partner first because if he's not okay with it then that would be a problem.

 

If he says no or you find that this is something you do in fact really really want then from that point you're gonna have to do a lot of soul searching and really only you and your boyfriend can decide what is best for the both of you in this situation

[Millemusen]

Oka, I have taken your advice, and speaking with him about the problem. We decided that I should try, and maybe find a caregiver to finds out I this what I want, and if it is, he will give it a try.

 

So ..

[penny]

Another suggestion I would make, and I know you said you didn't want to do it alone but I would HIGHLY recommend trying it. You don't need a caregiver but maybe another little or a big sister type to be with you online or in person so that you can get a feel for what kind of little you are. Or you may try it and find you're not into it and that's okay too.

 

Just maybe buy some coloring books, crayons and put on some cartoons and have a little fun and see of it clickes with you.

 

You don't want to involve another person if you don't know if you're into it or even what kind of little you are.

 

Just a suggestion

[Millemusen]

Hmm, Well then i just have to find a sister og a sibling

[penny]

You cut start a personal for friends/platonic caregivers. I think there a thread around here for a big sibling mentor program. I personally have a few little siblings and am always open for friendship If you have any questions.

 

But start by doing a lot of readin on the forums, maybe check out the dd/lg community on tumblr if you haven't. There are some YouTube videos about adault babies if you want to see how some other people express their little sides. And don't ever be afraid to experiment and have your boyfriend do the same if or when you decide to try this out. You want to make sure that both of you are happy and healthy so keep the lines of communication open, explore, experiment and don't forget to just have fun!