Question: Why is it so hard to find dominat mommy/little girl posts?

[Little Kitten Princess]

Why do you guys think it's so hard to find cute little doodles or kawaii tumblr art or little comics that regard little mommy and baby girl relationships? I can only find posts for ddlg and Dom mommy/baby boy and why aren't their posts for dd baby boy? Have you seen posts like these?

[Puppy]

I think it's because same sex dynamics (especially within the DDLG sub-genre) are sadly extremely overlooked. I thing one thing that factors into this is if you look at the statistics and ratio between heterosexual vs homosexual. About 25% of America's population either identifies as gay or lesbian, which is just 1/4 of everyone. Then you add onto a different sexual and mental lifestyle (such as BDSM) which according to my research we're going to say about 10% of the population participates in. So doing some math we're going to estimate the percentage of people who participate in BDSM related activities and are either gay/lesbian is roughly 2.5%. Then you get into the DDLG lifestyle, which even less people who participate in BDSM participate in. 

I think it all boils down to the rarity (for lack of a better word) when it comes to same sex dynamics in general. And when you introduce an even lesser-known and scarcely practiced lifestyle such as DDLG the rarity becomes even more so.

 

I also believe that many of those who are lesbian/gay who do participate in BDSM may feel more frightened to freely be themselves as not only are they struggling with the bullying and "taboo" of being who they are they are also struggling with the taboo behind BDSM. I'm sure this may hinder some from freely acting upon their preferred dynamic in a way that others do.

 

This is just my opinion and highly subjective, though. I hope I have not offended anybody as I am bisexual and an extreme advocate for equal rights, whether it be race, sexuality, orientation, etc. 

 

 

[pandaboy]

There's diffrence between baby boy and little boy in your opinion? Cause I see ddlb related posts, but it's rare Some tumblr blogs have ddlb related stuff ^-^

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

I just think its because the average perception is male daddy, female little. I am just trying to think whether I ever see it the other way in pics etc, but if I have, its been extremely rare. Its the same as the perception of dominant men in suits and submissive women who are much shorter, doe eyed, and usually mostly naked lol. Of course thats not exactly the same , but its a similar principle. Just another typical perception.

Its a shame there isn't more diversity shown.

[twifox the genderfluid fox]

omg!!!!!!! little kitten princess this is so weired! ur profile pic i actualy have that pic! its one of my fav neko pix. also as to ur question, i think maybve mommys are a bit of a rareity in the cgl world.

[lilvioletcub]

I'm A switch so I'm a mommy and a little to the same guy

I remeber seeing a DD/lb blog on tumblr once it's not That rare perhaps every 2 out of 5 on tumblr are like that

 

also to twifox mommies are not rare its just a matter of whos taken, whos single, whos looking, and who switch

[Guest nee-phy]

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[tiny kitty]

I think a lot of it is just that a lot more people are straight than bi/gay, so DD/lb and DM/lg, being based on same-sex partnerships, don't pop up as much because vanilla same-sex partnerships are also rarer than straight ones.