When is punishment enough?

[Harley_Quinn]

Hai I don't know if this has been posted on here or not but when is punishment enough? Like for instance my daddy doesn't know when to stop a spanking unless I start crying. I was wondering if anyone else has an issue with like the punishment line

[LolitasDaddy]

You need to have a talk with him. You also need to set up a safe word, and he needs to obey it. As the submissive, you need to understand YOU are the one with the power, and not him. His auto rite over you is a privilege and by no means something he is entitled too. Is he a sadist?

[Riri]

If the punishment's are too much you and your daddy should set a list of how punishments go..

example:

1-warning

2-time out

3-spankies

4-i have to write 200 words on why the rule i broke is important.

and so on ^-^

I hope this helps at all <3

[Harley_Quinn]

You need to have a talk with him. You also need to set up a safe word, and he needs to obey it. As the submissive, you need to understand YOU are the one with the power, and not him. His auto rite over you is a privilege and by no means something he is entitled too. Is he a sadist?

Yes. He is a sadist. In our ddlg relationship the Sadism Masochism is part of it. But sometimes the pain is too much for even me.

[LolitasDaddy]

Then you absolutely need a safe word, and he has to follow it 100%, whether he likes it or not.

[Harley_Quinn]

Then you absolutely need a safe word, and he has to follow it 100%, whether he likes it or not.

I'll talk to him about it. Thank yew. Both of yew

[Harley_Quinn]

I firmly believe that the punishment should fit the crime. It doesn't matter if he's a sadist or if you're a masochist, if it's too much, it's too much. Perhaps the two of you should sit down and layout rules and what happens when certain rules are broken instead of a genearl "I get punished" or "I get a spanking." I don't believe that forgetting to say "Yes, Sir" once should have the same degree of punishment as cussing at Daddy. Remember, punishment doesn't always have to be physical, either. If I forgot to say "Yes, Sir" I think a certain number of spankings would be appropriate, but if I cusse AT my Daddy, that would definitely deserve a different kind of punishment that perhaps isn't physical. Maybe it's a lecture followed by time out corner or writing lines. Best of luck and keep us updated!

I have rules and so does daddy. His rules are more towards him not misusing the whole relationship. But I will let you know what happens after we go back over the rules and stuff like that. Thank you :3

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

He keeps close eye on me. He watches my reactions and reads my attitude. He can tell when it's enough. I guess I'm lucky to have someone that knows me so well.

When he stops, it really is always at the point I honestly couldn't handle any more. But that comes with constant interaction,open dialogue, attention to detail and thought.

[Harley_Quinn]

Here's an update for you guise. Daddy's been being much better with not punishing me as hard as before. Just thought I'd let you know :3 thank you for the help, it helped me talk to him better.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

That's good. As in pretty much all cases in every situation, open communication is always vital.