Question

[Eliza]

So I've been wondering if you are talking to someone who is also in DDlg and you want them to be your Daddy would I as the little be the one to ask or would it be them and I'm not usually one for gender roles but I have been wondering about this for quite some time now. 

[Guest little.prince1]

You don't have to wait for him to ask. It's just like dating kinda. Either he can ask or you can. Up to you. Whatever you're comfortable with doing. 

[Guest GrapeApe]

I think it is actually easier if the little approaches the big.  Almost as if the little is offering their consent, rather than being asked for it.

[LolitasDaddy]

I'd consider dating first, or at least being close adult friends before entering into a DDlg dynamic.

[Harley_Quinn]

Well, with me and my daddy we'd been dating off and on for a year now, I didn't tell him about this intentionally lol. One night I was on the forum and he asked what I was doing and I said on a forum and he asked for what and I said DDLG and he was like oh okay and that was that. Now he is my daddy and I'm happy that I let it slip out :3

[Guest Scout]

Either can definitely ask.  

[dd.simon.4lg]

Absolutely agree. It doesn't matter who asks

[MellyBoo19912015]

It doesn't really matter who asks. What matters is both people consenting to it. For some people asking is as simple as asking, others make it a cute event etc. Do what feels best. And don't forget your never gonna know if you don't ask.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Just trying to specifically remember how it happened with me and my daddy. I mean the idea was there that we were starting a potential relationship from the outset. I think it was kind of mutual. It's totally either way, depends on each situation. No rules to say he/she has to ask etc.