Daddy not listening and meeting needs!

[Kittenkisses248]

My daddy is not meeting my little needs I feel like he is just letting me be little.I do all self care and he doesn't really do anything a daddy should! He won't listen when I try to talk about it and I feel like I'm to needy or something. It is ruining my little side and I am so hurt I don't know what to do! Any advice?

[MissAiko]

First and foremost he is your partner. You should both be working to make sure each other's needs are filled.

 

If your partner is not listening to you when you are expressing that your needs are not being met, that is a problem and you need to have a serious discussion about it. But as his partner you should also be asking him if his needs are met.

 

If he can't have a serious conversation about this, regardless of choosing to have a DD/lg relationship, it may be time to walk away.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Simply sounds you are not even slightly compatible. I'm sorry but its never a good idea to try change someone. It causes resentment on either or both sides. You are what you are. He is what he is. You need someone who accepts you. Thats quite an important one.

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

First and foremost he is your partner. You should both be working to make sure each other's needs are filled.

 

If your partner is not listening to you when you are expressing that your needs are not being met, that is a problem and you need to have a serious discussion about it. But as his partner you should also be asking him if his needs are met.

 

If he can't have a serious conversation about this, regardless of choosing to have a DD/lg relationship, it may be time to walk away.

 

I agree with MissAiko 100%. 

[LolitasDaddy]

Sounds like he has no interest in being a Daddy. If that's the case, he'll never be suitable at meeting your little needs.

[lilvioletcub]

First and foremost he is your partner. You should both be working to make sure each other's needs are filled.

 

If your partner is not listening to you when you are expressing that your needs are not being met, that is a problem and you need to have a serious discussion about it. But as his partner you should also be asking him if his needs are met.

 

If he can't have a serious conversation about this, regardless of choosing to have a DD/lg relationship, it may be time to walk away.

 

100% this and may I add something to? he isn't "ruining your little side" I think so many people forget this but let me break it down for you

 

Apart of you: If being a little is apart of you then no one can or should "ruin" that for you, For example I'm 25 and I love the stickers at the dollar store, My little pony for the plot and artwork, My little pony toy's and stuffed animals becuse I don't like sleeping alone with out something to grab, I sometimes talk in little speak but thats a new thing. My boyfriend is not the biggest MLP fan but understands I like it and much of what I like is just apart of who I am. and yes this is outside of little space. When I'm big I look in the toy sections of stores, and for stickers, only once in those sections doI go little space. If your little space is apart of you it can't be "ruined" by anyone

 

Role play: for some it's Role play if thats the case it can't be ruined becuse your acting and its not really you but a character of yourself you made

 

Fetish: you get off on the idea of DD/lg this also can't be ruined since if your partner is understanding its hey it works for you but not me kind of deal

 

 

You are an Adult.

You should be able to do self care on your own anyway and are expected to, being little is wanting someone else to do it for you which is 100% okay

You are not communicating well with your partner as an adult.

 

This isn't some mind blowing revoluation Trust and communication is the biggest foundation for this dynamic and relationships in genral, heck does your partner even know your a little? does he know what DD/lg is?

Not everyone is cut out to be a Daddy some people are just vianilla with kinky sex on the side but not well what are you looking for?

 

Do you even know what you want from a daddy or your boyfriend?

 

Seriously though just sit and talk like adults