Is this silly?

[LittleCupcake94]

I'm relatively new to the DD/lg world. I have a long-distance Daddy that I love very very much. We've been together for...I think 3 months now? It's wonderful and he's an amazing Daddy. I feel weird though...because I'm not one of those littles who's always in little space. Like...I only go into little space every couple of nights. And not being in that space very often makes me feel silly when I am. When I look at it from the outside-looking-in perspective, it seems goofy and weird and my adult brain thinks 'what the hell are you doing?' 

 

Does anyone else feel that way?

[LolitasDaddy]

Not silly at all. Some little's are in little space much more than others. If you are happy, and it is fulfilling, you are doing it just right

[DaddysLolita]

Everyone's different LittleCupcake! I'm not in little space every day either and lots of things affect if I go into it at all like stress, work, how I feel etc. Don't feel weird for not being in it all the time. Just do what's right for you.

 

<3

[lilvioletcub]

Nope not at all in fact its healthy to not be in little space 24/7 when you have adult things to do you know?

I myself am not in little space all the time but when I am I'm never scolding myself for it it just is

[Bull]

Let's be honest here - DDLG is probably one of the silliest things an adult human being can do.

 

DDLG a lot of things. It's a hobby for some, a kink for others, and a lifestyle for the rest. But it's also something we do because it's fun. We do this purely for our own enjoyment - why not enjoy the silly, or even downright ridiculous aspects of it, to its full extent?

 

To that end, it's fine to laugh at the silliness of it all, but don't let that make you feel bad about something you enjoy. We do this for fun anyway, and sometimes that's worth remembering.

[Guest starrflower]

Yes I felt this way at first. I didnt know that ddlg existed and felt terrible about myself when others would react to me who didn't understand. I love this forum. I have felt so validated here <3

 

It's nice to find the balance between adult and little self. And to discover how you want this part of your life.

[DGManda]

Sometimes I feel silly. Mostly when I am little around those who don't know about it. It doesn't happen often but it does happen. As long as you are happy and your relationship is fulfilling that is all that matters.