Accepting myself!

[MommyDom41]

Hi all you beautiful amazing wonderful people on here! How have you all been? Anyone do anything fun recently? Maybe meet new friends or potential life partners? I get so excited when I see you all find your happiness it makes me want to squeal with happiness!

So over the past few weeks I hage begun to discover what makes me, well me lol

I have realized I absolutely adore taking care of someone but I also love being told what to do. And by that it has left me with so many questions, as in am I really a Mommy? Am I a switch or a little? But then I think okay Anna do you have any traits of a little?

Don't get me wrong I love watching cartoons, coloring and of course I go to bed every night with Mr Bunny (he's my chocolate stuffed bunny rabbit). And I get so excited over the tiniest things like gummies they are my favorite, but honestly that's it. (Well minus the large amounts of sleepers in my closet but no one needs to know about that lol)

That's it though, so am I little? Maybe, I mean it's possible but at the end of the day I adore being there for people. I love helping them and lifting them up to show them that they are not alone. I love having someone to talk to and cuddle with making sure they are safe. That's what makes my heart leap for joy is to love someone. 

Then I wonder where does that leave me? I know I've had this rant a few times but I finally accepted myself, I can honestly say I am a loving kind submissive (maybe somewhat of a little) Mommy who needs an assertive little or CG. i mean the skies the limit right? Do I want a little? Yes absolutely. Am I opposed to CGs? No as long as they can handle my loving Mommy side. So again it makes me question what am I?

But that's the beauty of this forum, you can be whoever you are or need to be and you will be accepted. I know that no matter what happens in my life, no matter who I end up with I will be loved. 

If I find my forever little that's beautiful, if I find a daddy or Mommy then that is beautiful as well. I'm not shutting out in possibilities, I'm finally saying it's okay to be me. 

So if I can accept myself then you my beautiful Sunshines can accept yourselves. No matter what you identity with, you are accepted and you are loved. I see you, I value you and I am so proud of you!

Life is too short to listen to the negativity, I want you all to focus on remembering that you are perfect just the way you are. Because if I can smile in the mirror and know it's okay to be a submissive(somewhat of a little) Mommy then you can smile in the mirror knowing you are perfect too!

Don't ever doubt your self worth, remember you are amazing and I am rooting for you. I am so proud of each and everyone of you. I love reading your stories and I get so happy when you all find your happily ever after! And for those who are still looking don't ever give up on your dreams. No matter if you are here for friends, partners or just someone to accept you. I promise you will find all that and more on here. 

Thank you for listening to my rant and allowing me to take up a little bit of your time.

Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved  💝💖❤️❣️

 

If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever. >>

- Winnie the Pooh

Edited Saturday at 05:02 AM by MommyDom41

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

I still stand by my original opinion that you could totally benefit from a dom Little, however, now I think that a switch might be good for you too!

[MommyDom41]

@.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ thank you for always being so kind to me and for always saying such positive things. You are a gem in this community so thank you for being yourself!

[-Soul-]

Oh Miss Anna! I absolutely adore when you write!  You have such a way with l words!

I think it’s amazing your on  this is tho of self discovery and I am glad we get to spend it with you! I know for fact your future is just beginning and that your Little or potential CG or heck both! Are going to love and cherish you! 

While the world can sometimes be cruel, do not let it change you, you are a beautiful person, an amazing Soul and we love you!

as you say, Until we meet again…

 

[MommyDom41]

@-Soul- thank you Soul for always being by my side on my journey here and guiding me along the way. There is still so much I don't know, but you always help me when I seem to have got myself in a pickle.

Thank you for caring about me and for caring about everyone on here. You are a true pillar of this community and a wonderful person to get to know.

Thank you for all that you have done for me and for everyone on here. 

Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved ❤️

[beanbean]

It’s kinda like me I am definitely a daddy dom but I have subbed before but I am not a little . Bottom line just be you whatever that is and your good

[MommyDom41]

@beanbean it means so much to me to hear that from you. Thank you, and honestly I'm excited but extremely nervous like what if I spaz out and say no I'm the boss lol 

But I'm going to give it my all and I'm really excited like a squirrel that found a lost acorn in the middle of the winter. I'm so random sorry lol

Anyway thank you for your kind words you truly are a wonderful part of this community 

[Baby Manda]

Your words make me wonder more about myself. (In a good way) I've always been the caretaker in relationships, until the last 3 years, when I learned about being little. I am definitely a little, but I really enjoy taking care of people, too. It's not the same, as I feel more little than anything else, but I've wondered about being a switch or something else. Maybe I need to look at some of these other terms mentioned. It's like I'm comfortable being little most of the time,  but other times, not so much. I have a need to caregive sometimes, that I can't explain very well. I definitely don't want to caregive 100% of the time (been there, done that, have the certificate), but I'm also not really comfortable being little 100% of the time either. I like making choices and being the one to take care of my Caregiver. I struggle to connect if I can't be responsible for someone else sometimes, but I can be super needy, too. 😆  It's definitely complicated!

I have a lot more work to do to figure it out, but I really enjoy all my friends here! I am able to read about different experiences and know that I am ok being me. 

 

@MommyDom41 I love your squirrel idea! It made me think of the movie Ice Age! It fits this topic so well and someone described me that way this week at work! 😆(bouncing about like a squirrel chasing a nut). I think it takes deep reflection,  an awareness of self, and patience to find acceptance and to truly know who you are. Thank you for posting about your acceptance of who you are! It has encouraged me to think and be brave, too. 

[MommyDom41]

@Baby Manda you are such a delight to talk to and you honestly make me want to be braver. You are so important to this community and we all adore you!

Thank you for being yourself ❣️ 

And honestly I think it's great they are referring you to Scrat from ice age because honestly that's me 24/7 😂 

I would love to be friends with you 😊 

Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved ❤️

[beanbean]

7 hours ago, MommyDom41 said:

@beanbean it means so much to me to hear that from you. Thank you, and honestly I'm excited but extremely nervous like what if I spaz out and say no I'm the boss lol 

But I'm going to give it my all and I'm really excited like a squirrel that found a lost acorn in the middle of the winter. I'm so random sorry lol

Anyway thank you for your kind words you truly are a wonderful part of this community 

Just be yourself explore it figure it out don’t put pressure on yourself and it will workout whatever path you decide to take

 

On 3/23/2025 at 9:17 PM, Lil Baby Stoner said:

Sad

 

On 3/24/2025 at 10:06 AM, BabyChaos said:

I’m a 43 year old middle/little and my daughters and I had a bad experience with my X-husband (my son’s father) and now I’m scared to bring anyone home. Is it normal that I feel that way and only want to do online? Or long distance? And for “other needs” to just find someone to “hook up with”?

 

On 3/24/2025 at 6:58 AM, .คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ said:

Idk if this'll work! You can't just put doll house stuff out and expect fairies to care. You gotta leave fun snacks a sing them a song too~ 

All you did was summon a pink sheep this way! And I mean, I know that I'm extra fabulous and all, but I seriously doubt that's the type of fairy you were hoping for. 

*places odd-looking dolls in 2 of the tiny chairs*

I swear that these aren't voodoo dolls!!

She's just my Living Dead Doll! *points* her name is Little Bo Creep. Please don't take her mask off. I won't be responsible for any damage she does, if you do! She doesn't nom nom on sheeps anymore, but she... still ...noms... despite my best efforts to give her therapy.

*redirected pointing at the second doll* And he's Blade, from the Puppet Master movies. But don't worry, he's actually a good guy now, despite his scaryness.

 

On 3/26/2025 at 6:20 AM, Lil Baby Stoner said:

Meh getting Induce next week we have a plan and everything kinda sad but meh