please help!

[littlecountrygirl]

Hi! My name is Rena, and I have a problem. Im a little (obviously) and I have a boyfriend (of almost 2 yrs) and we love each other so so much and he knows i’m a little and he wants to get into it as well but i am at a loss here, i'm trying to help him understand how to be a daddy but its so hard to find resources to show him, that would help him understand more, because he really wants to be apart of what i’m into. so if anyone could please help, by giving me links to send him or advice that would also help so that i could give to him, anything helps! Thank you so so much, I absolutely love this community, everyone is so so helpful! and it is also so welcoming.♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎

 

[shadowrider]

 My first suggestion would be for your partner to join. That way they can ask any particular questions they may have and do some reading while hanging out and maybe making some friends.

 I would also suggest joining the club Knowledge Is Power. It is for asking questions in a smaller setting than the open forum and is open to anyone from the complete newb to those considered seasoned vets.

 

 

[beanbean]

38 minutes ago, shadowrider said:

 My first suggestion would be for your partner to join. That way they can ask any particular questions they may have and do some reading while hanging out and maybe making some friends.

 I would also suggest joining the club Knowledge Is Power. It is for asking questions in a smaller setting than the open forum and is open to anyone from the complete newb to those considered seasoned vets.

All this have him come on here and read and explore it might help for sure 

 

[LittleBiscut]

Complicated. My best advice would be to let him look at the caregiver cafe thread and read what other Daddy’s do and don’t do. Also there is information online and on YouTube about ddlg. And maybe if he wanted make an account so he can ask questions tooo ❤️❤️❤️

[MasterPhotog]

23 hours ago, bubblegum_bunnie said:

Hi! My name is Rena, and I have a problem. Im a little (obviously) and I have a boyfriend (of almost 2 yrs) and we love each other so so much and he knows i’m a little and he wants to get into it as well but i am at a loss here, i'm trying to help him understand how to be a daddy but its so hard to find resources to show him, that would help him understand more, because he really wants to be apart of what i’m into. so if anyone could please help, by giving me links to send him or advice that would also help so that i could give to him, anything helps! Thank you so so much, I absolutely love this community, everyone is so so helpful! and it is also so welcoming.♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎♥︎

 

@bubblegum_bunnie Hello Rena, since your BF knows you're a little and he genuinely wants to be apart of what you're into, as others have advised, the first advice would be for him to join the Forum and see for himself what this dynamic is all about. 

You may also want to encourage him to join various clubs, Caregiver Cafe thread etc., and ask questions to feel comfortable about becoming a Daddy himself. 

Please keep in mind that since he would be in unfamiliar territory, so to speak, let him take his time ask questions without anyone rushing him at all. 

I'm confident, in time, he would be excited to embrace the dynamic especially knowing how much it means to you. Best wishes!

[Middlespace Brat]

Hello! Welcome to the community!

As several people have stated, there are many wonderful excellent resources on the site, whether threads or posts or people to ask. Your boyfriend/Daddy joining would be great start. 

There's also some really cool resources out there too, like books on BDSM, DDLg, and the like. I personally like educational Youtubers, but not all of them are exactly awesome. In my opinion, Evie Lupine is a good channel, who covers basics and specifics, on all types of Littles! Of course, take it with a grain of salt, everyone has different views and more knowledge than me.

I would be specific to your Daddy what YOUR littlespace looks like. What's being a good Daddy/Dom to you? Is Littlespace nonsexual for you? What activities does it involve, and how engaged do you want it to be with him? Is it a role you play or an aspect of your day-to-day?


All of this, of course, needs to be done when he has a really good grasp on the basics of BDSM. There's a lot out there covering this, but when it involves DDLg specifically, resources are a smidge harder to come by.

I hope it goes well, and good luck! ❤️