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Im a little who has always really struggled with showing this part of me but I doubt myself , Im sooo very little and do all the right things such as being a good girl , doing chores, coloring , being in my knees for my old daddy when he came home from work but I feel like I need to do more . Im looking for someone to help me explore that side of me but have no idea how to find a daddy ~ a needy little 

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@kitty20, The way you described yourself, doing chores, coloring and taking directions from your ex Daddy, you sound absolutely amazing.

Since you're seeking a Daddy, I'm sure someone somewhere would be delighted to have you their little too. In the meantime, continue being proud of yourself for being a good girl that you're. Feel free to reach out if you need guidance or reassurance. 

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Oh, sweetheart, it sounds like you're carrying a lot of worries, and you shouldn't be! You sound like an absolutely wonderful little girl, and you're already doing so many amazing things.

Being a good girl, doing your chores, coloring, and being on your knees for your Daddy – those are all wonderful ways to express your littleness and show your love and respect. You're trying so hard, and that's something to be celebrated, not doubted.

It's completely normal to feel like you want to explore your little side more deeply, especially if you've struggled with it in the past. It takes courage to open up and be vulnerable, and you're already doing that by reaching out here.

It's also understandable that you're unsure how to find a Daddy. Finding the right caregiver can take time and patience, but it's important to remember that you deserve to find someone who cherishes and supports your littleness.

Here are a few gentle reminders:

  • You're already enough: You don't need to "do more" to prove your littleness. Being yourself is enough.
  • Your feelings are valid: It's okay to feel needy and to crave attention and affection. Those are natural desires, and you deserve to have them met.
  • You deserve a loving Daddy: You deserve to find a caregiver who makes you feel safe, loved, and cherished. Don't settle for anything less.

If you'd like to talk more about your feelings, or if you have any questions about finding a Daddy, or anything at all, please don't hesitate to reach out, as you have here in the forums, I am sure lots of Daddies from this amazing group will want to speak with you. Also, if you wish I'm here to listen and offer any support I can.

You're a wonderful little girl, and you deserve to feel happy and confident in your littleness.

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You are enough as you are. Don't think to low of yourself. You can be yourself with the right Daddy that comes along. Thats an important piece of advice. From this post I really think you are a dedicated and loving little so no need to improve. 

I think it is unrelated to the way to find a Daddy, we as ddlg people have an extra handicap in dating. We need to like each other vanilla and ddlg wise and finding your person is hard for every single one of us. No matter how much effort we put into it, it will come when the time is right ;)

Hang in there there, we all do!

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