MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 Hello Sunshines! I wanted to write to you because I have seen so many of you all struggling to find a place to fit in. I read your comments and your posts, it breaks my heart to see you all thinking that no one cares for you or that you will always be alone. The worst is when you all are so hard on yourselves. I wish you could see yourself the way I see you all, perfect, amazing, sweet, caring and full of life. Everyone of you on here are searching for a missing piece of yourself. Rather it be a Daddy, a Mommy, a little, a sub or just friends. You are looking for people who will understand you and see you for who you are. Sunshines, you are seen, I see you, I am so proud of you for getting out of bed today. I am so proud of you for still getting up and going to work. I am extremely proud of you for never giving up. I know sometimes it's a struggle to find the right person to click with, and sometimes you think you met the right person and it fails. But that doesn't mean to give up. No that means keep going, keep trying and don't look back. You are perfect just the way you are, so don't try and change who you are because someone doesn't like you. Don't stop being you, don't stop trying and don't stop reaching for your goals. You are all so amazing, I wish you wouldn't be so hard on yourselves. Take it from me a Mommy, you are all perfect and you are all doing so good so don't give up now. I truly am proud of you all, and I promise it does get better. For those looking for your Littles don't give up they are looking for you as much as you are for them. For the ones searching for a Mommy or Daddy, don't stop looking they need you as much as you need them. And for those who are seeking friends they are seeking to find you as well. You aren't lost, you aren't bad, you do deserve love, you will overcome your battles, you are brave, you are beautiful, you do matter and I do see each and everyone of you. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are so worthy of being loved ❣️ 💖💝💕 5 3 1
the_trucking_pawpaw Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 I just wanted to say thank you for this. I'm new to this community and learning (a lot!). I'm gradually getting a feel for who I am/want to be as a daddy. Not sure how ready I am to be that person for another person out there, but I would gladly explore via internet with anyone willing to take those first tentative steps and learn/grow together. We might decide we aren't compatible as a daddy/little, but we can at least learn together. I would love to make friends of daddies, mommies and littles who want to take this same journey. 2 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @the_trucking_pawpaw welcome to the forum and to our family 2
WizardofOSS Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 @the_trucking_pawpaw Welcome! I hope you can look over the excellent materials in the Caregiver Cafe about being a new Daddy as well as some of the pinned posts about littles too. I believe the more you know about all sides, the better you can empathize and understand potential partners and their needs. Welcome!! @MommyDom41 Thank you for your kind words as always! I hope many find hope and solace through them in their times of need. Thanks for always being positive for others and we all want the same for you!! Stay strong!! 1 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @babieflower thank you Sunshine and welcome to the forum! I hope you find everything you are looking for and more here! 1
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 1 minute ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower thank you Sunshine and welcome to the forum! I hope you find everything you are looking for and more here! thankyou so much! I hope you're having a lovely day! it's super cold here 🥶 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @babieflower I am having a beautiful day, and I'm sorry you are cold. Someone needs to tell Elsa winter is over 💖 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @Aikko thank you! I love reading your post you are so kind and have such a beautiful heart Sunshine! 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @SoulEater thank you Soul, I do sometimes forget that my words are meant for me as well ❤️🩹 1
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 7 minutes ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower I am having a beautiful day, and I'm sorry you are cold. Someone needs to tell Elsa winter is over 💖 I think tonight im going to find elsa and tell her winter is over 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @babieflower I don't blame you, make sure you give Olaf a hug when you do find her 💖
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 38 minutes ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower I don't blame you, make sure you give Olaf a hug when you do find her 💖 I sooo will! what if he is too small to hug he is sooo tiny! 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @babieflower you know what's so special about Olaf? He can grow as big as you need him to be because he is made of magical snow ❄️ So don't worry about that okay? You will be able to hug him I promise 💖
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 8 minutes ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower you know what's so special about Olaf? He can grow as big as you need him to be because he is made of magical snow ❄️ So don't worry about that okay? You will be able to hug him I promise 💖 thats sooo cuteee! i hope i can find magical snow the next time it snows >.< do you like snow!?!? 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @babieflower I actually like the snow but hate the cold lol
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 2 minutes ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower I actually like the snow but hate the cold lol *sprinkles snow on you* hehe! 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @babieflower why thank you, I do think the snow makes me look like a Queen
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 24 minutes ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower why thank you, I do think the snow makes me look like a Queen you are already a queen! 1
SweetLittleDreamer Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 This post is what made me feel confident & brave enough to join this community. I needed those words a lot right now. 1
MommyDom41 Posted March 17 Author Report Posted March 17 @SweetLittleDreamer Sunshine you aren't alone anymore. You are so brave, thank you for joining and welcome to the family! I promise you, that you will find exactly what you are looking for on here ❤️
babieflower Posted March 17 Report Posted March 17 5 minutes ago, MommyDom41 said: @babieflower well then it must be true are your dms open at all? I would love to be friends! but totally okay if not I promise:D 1
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