DDLG & AGERE is it possible to be both can people chime in?

[Guest bigDadaM]

So I hope I'm not breaking any rules having this discussion I'll preface by saying we are currently separated but my little loves all the cute stuff and being told what to do and given tasks and loves pacifiers.

so she is a ddlg little but she also has times where she actually reverts to a child like state sometimes non verbal, her voice tone changes, even cute talk like a child, her eyes and her face you can tell it changes and I must call her baby she calls herself baby.

I think she's also D.I.D along with BPD we have all the normal things you expect in a relationship and we have plenty of healthy conversations about consent because there are times she will revert to her little self when we are in the middle of intimate situations sometimes it is involuntary but she tells me she enjoys all the intimate things it makes her feel closer to her daddy and sharing something so special is very important for her and her little side.

Is there any other relationships like this obviously not everyone is sxual DDLG and that's fine but some are. 

Curious to find if there are others Littles who are also AGERE in DDLG relationship.

 

No judgement please

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

A lot of Littles participate in ageplay (kink), but also experience age regression (not kink/therapy). It varies from Little to Little, but what you described is a perfectly normal aspect of a DDLG relationship.

Speaking personally, I'm an age regressor. I don't participate in kink ageplay, but I am married to a partner who doubles as my Mommy for my little headspace. She doesn't mind that my trauma has left me disinterested in the kink aspect.

What I'm getting at, is that each relationship heavily relies on communication and consent. Some Littles enjoy ageplay kink, some don't. But regardless of kink participation or not, there is no right or wrong way to be a Little.

[Baby Manda]

Is your little aware of her regression? Is it something she is comfortable with and is it something you are comfortable with, too? Do you feel you can both negotiate a plan for safety when she is in a state of regression and do you have a way to pull her out of it safely if need be?

 

These are questions to think about before diving too deep into this with her. I have personal experience where my regression led to others being negatively effected when I before I knew I was regressing. 

My advice would be to move slowly.