BigMeat Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 I have wonderful news to share with the DDLG community!Ā Ā I have finally saved up enough money š° to buy the engagement ring that I allowed my little to pick out all by herself. Soon, I will be proposing to her and asking for her hand in marriage. I have not seen very many DDLG couples who are actually marriedā¦only a few to be honest. I do see a lot of LDR DDLG couples though. Is marriage in a DDLG relationshipā¦normal? Daddyās, how many of you are married to your littles out there? Littles, how many of you are married to your DDās?? Thank you, Ā -Axl // BigMeat 2 2 2
Lil Baby Stoner Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 My partner(daddy) and me been married almost a year our anniversary is coming up but when we first started talking before dating we discussed we wanted marriage and kids and it was a huge deal breaker for us both if either of us didnāt want that I think itās normal see a fair amount of daddys and littles marriedĀ 1 1 1
BigMeat Posted March 16 Author Report Posted March 16 @Lil Baby StonerĀ This is good news to hear! I just havenāt seen too many DDLG couples who are actually married so I wasnāt sure how normal it was. Iāve seen a few, just not many. Happy early anniversary by the way! My little and I also spoke directly about what exactly we wanted out of our relationship, and that actually took place before I even knew that she was a little. I fell completely in love with her on our second date, which I was not expecting to happen. I fell for who she was as a person and the way that she treated me, Iāve never been treated so well by a woman in my entire life. The fact that sheās a little is just an added extra bonus.š We also decided early on that we will not be having any kids. 1 1
Aikko Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 Congratulations to you both!!! š» what an exciting time! And your little has excellent taste, thatās a gorgeous rock! My Daddy is just my boyfriend right now, but we both knew marriage is something we are open to and desire at some point. For us, the Daddy/little sides are secondary to our relationship, but not really separate if that makes sense. We are always Daddy and little respectively, but we are not always in that headspace 24/7, so I guess you can call the rest of it just ānormalā relationship stuff and the joining of two lives together. Having been married previously to a man who was not only not okay with my little side, but actively persecuted it, I know now that I can never be with someone again that disparages or simply doesnāt accept my little side.Ā 1 1
Little kaiya Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 My Daddy and I are unfortunately not married but that is due to legal restrictions vs desire. My Wife, Daddy and I are in a closed, polyamorous triad and under Canadian law you can only be married to one person. That said, we are planning to have a commitment ceremony that will be our wedding except in the legal sense. My Wife is going to officiate and our family and friends will be there to celebrate with us. 1 1 1
.ąøāšļ¾ą¹į°Ī±Ī±Ī± .į Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 Congratulations!! ā” I'm married, so I know first hand that Marriage really can be wonderfully fulfilling. Wishing you all the best for you and your Little!! 1 1 1
samar_ Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 I am happy for you, I wish you a happy life together ā£ļø. 1
BigMeat Posted March 16 Author Report Posted March 16 (edited) Thank you all for the love and support! It makes me quite relieved to know there are others out there who have married into a DDLG dynamic. My little is truly my best friend ever and we do have a normal relationship outside of our dynamic, but as I stated earlier; our DDLG dynamic is just an added bonus. I love that I can be a Daddy and also have my best friend as my spouse at the same time. Itās truly a wonderful life this way.Ā I appreciate all of the congratulatory wishes as well, in addition to the positive comments on her ring! I did allow her free rein to choose which ever engagement ring she desired without any financial restrictions and I have to agree, she does have very good taste.Ā With the proposal is right around the corner, I am super excited! I will share more when the time comes and hopefully get a good picture to share with the community here as well. It means so much to me to be part of the DDLG community, to be able to share this exciting time/experience with you all AND more than anything; to have your support!!! -Axl // BigMeat Edited March 16 by BigMeat 4
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