Daddy looking for Mommy for his little girl (advice)

[DaddyRich]

Hi all

This goes out to all the Mommy figures out there.  My little has a Mommy figure at the moment but she is very rarely on and when she is she seems to be more focused and busy with either her real life (which I completely understand and support her focusing on her real life) or my little’s “sister” best friend.  This leaves my little feeling abandoned and unwanted by her.  She needs that Mommy figure in her life, and yes we have discussed this my little and I, but she relates better and stronger to a female authority figure than that of a male.

My question here is how do I get her Mommy to spend more time with her than she does without making my little sound needy, and thus pushing her Mommy further away and more towards her sister?

[Little kaiya]

There are times where for healthy relationships folks need to have discussions as adults outside of DDlg roles and it sounds like this situation would be one of those. If she isn't satisfied with the relationship dynamic that she and her mommy have it is for the two of them to sit down and resolve as adults. Certainly your desire to intervene the situation comes from a well intentioned motivation but your little and her mommy are both still adults first and foremost.

[DaddyRich]

Yes that is very true, and thank you for the advice.  It’s just harder for my little bc she has a lot of social anxiety and isn’t good with expressing her emotions, so having this kind of conversation with her Mommy isn’t easy for her at all unfortunately, that is why I want to step in and help her when the situation merits it