Thoughtful Question?

[MissNMTX]

I'm not a Domme, nor do I have any desire to be. I have far too much of that in my public facing life to have it in this aspect as well! That said, I do LOVE a good pet name! The general ones you mentioned, but specific ones between partners also.

I'm going to agree with others here that it seems just a desire for affection and connection. Afterall, not just anyone would call you such things! It's someone close to you that holds you in esteem and affection. There about a million threads here that talk about the misuse of affectate nicknames and using them too soon.

Just to throw another thought out there, you've been on this site for a little while now. (I know there are people super excited to have a Domme here) But there's A LOT on this forum. Alternatives, variations, lifestyles, personalities. Just a lot in general. It's possible that you just got a bit overwhelmed and it's just something that needs to be sorted through and explored. I pray you have safe people you can do that with.

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

I'm a dom as well, but still really enjoy the whole princess bit up to a point. And I would never turn down being called a good boy by a sub. But a dom doing it will likely have a broken nose before our interaction is complete (figuratively speaking, of course).

I find it amusing that I've over powered the sub and turned them into something that they're not. It's like a game of pretend.

I also think a part of it is that I don't like not having control of a situation due to trauma. But with a sub, my heightened senses are significantly reduced and I can enjoy the power play. I need to feel safe while doing it, but doms typically don't have a calming affect on me.

[MommyDom41]

@MissNMTX thank you for your kind words to me, and yes I am new to this platform but have been a Dom for over 20 years. 

Your words were truly insightful, thank you for replying to my topic and for being so understanding 

[MommyDom41]

@.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ I agree with you being in control makes me feel safe and brings the best out of me. Thank you for responding to my topic, it's nice to hear from a Dom who has been in this situation before. 

Sincerely thank you for being so kind to me 

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

You're definitely not alone with this! Though I think we're a bit rare, when compared to the DDLG community as a whole. 

And of course~

[PrincessPeachy95x]

Could it be linked to willingness to receive the same affection and love you give to others and these pet names are association?

[MommyDom41]

@PrincessPeachy95x you know I have never thought of that before. Thank you @PrincessPeachy95x for taking the time to answer my question. Your thoughtful is most welcomed.