Where should I start? Help please!

[Guest calvinhobbes13]

I heard about this from others and i am sort of getting into this and it is very new to me so I don't know where exactly where I would fit in. Since I'm a 20 year old male I don't know if it's normal to be a little, I mean I'm not really a dominant person unless I had to, but I'm not really like a child.. If anyone could help me I'd appreciate it, thanks and have a great day/evening.

[Guest littlemissragamuffin]

Actually age has nothing to do with being Little. You don't have to be dominant to be a Caregiver. No one but you can tell you how you are, it's how you feel and how your mind works.

[Guest calvinhobbes13]

Thanks for the input

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

Take a look around the site and I think you'll find some useful information. You can be whoever you desire to be and whatever makes you happy

[littlemonstergirl]

Anyone can be a little or a caregiver! There are people from all backgrounds that are drawn to the caregiver/little dynamic it just seems the focus gets put on dd/lg. 

 

Some people put ages to their littles, some don't, for some littles aren't kids they are kitties or puppies. Being little is all about what makes you comfy and happy!  I don't put an age to my little and sometimes I feel like my little side is more like a little bunny but mostly a little monster *rawrs*

 

I still struggle with my little side and getting comfortable with her, being here has helped a lot. My daddy recognized that I had a little side before I even had the right words for it, so he started surprising me with coloring books, little stuffed animals, and stickers to get me more comfortable with that part of myself. There are things I like in big space and little space like reading about bugs! 

 

The best way is just to start trying things, pick up a coloring book and some crayons, there are lots of options now and see how it makes you feel. And of course keep talking to all us fellow littles here! 

[DaddysLilVixen]

I'm a 35 ear old little, so don't feel bad. I, myself, feel awkward about revealing my age but I am a little and that is just how it is. All littles 'age' and it doesn't mean you just stop being a little you know? Its how you feel, whats inside you.