Types of DD/MD/Cg

[shadowrider]

We all know each individual is their own person and you can't shoehorn everyone into a small box/label. 

But it was brought up that having a list of different types of DD/MD/Cg might be useful. 

Though the term Daddy is used below Mommy or Caregiver/Babysitter is freely interchangeable. I just did not want to edit their contributions since we can insert the correct term as we read.

Thanks to @คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ   and @Dangerously_Well for their work on this.

 

Soft Daddy - Bends to the whimsy of their partner's demands. Situationally submissive.

(Hard) Daddy Dom - Takes the lead in the relationship. Understands BDSM, follows SSC, and provides aftercare.

Kink Daddy - Interested in kinks.

Platonic Daddy - A non-kinker who's emotionally invested in his relationship. Might be asexual.

(Toxic) Daddy Dom - A manchild whose got a fragile ego. Easily confused with (Hard) Daddy Doms by newbies/young men of BDSM.

Sugar Daddy - Offers money/gifts in exchange for attention.

 

 

Based on Personality/Dynamic:

• The Classic Daddy: A traditional, authoritative figure. Emphasizes rules, structure, and discipline, but also provides a strong sense of security and love. Often has a paternalistic or protector role.
• The Playful Daddy: Focuses on fun, games, and silliness. Encourages their little to embrace their childlike wonder and enjoys engaging in playful activities together. May be less strict with rules but still provides guidance.
• The Nurturing Daddy: Prioritizes emotional care and support. Focuses on creating a safe and comforting environment for their little. May be particularly attuned to their little's emotional needs and provides lots of cuddles and reassurance.
• The Gentle Daddy: A kind and patient caregiver. Emphasizes positive reinforcement and gentle guidance. Prefers a softer approach to discipline and focuses on building a strong emotional connection.
• The Strict Daddy: Emphasizes rules, structure, and discipline. Believes in clear boundaries and consequences. Provides a sense of security through firm guidance and may enjoy a more dominant role.
• The Dom Daddy: A dominant figure who enjoys taking control in the relationship. May enjoy BDSM elements and focuses on power dynamics. May be strict or gentle depending on their personal style. (Note: Dominance is not inherently abusive, but it's crucial that it's consensual and safe.)

Based on Focus:

• The Caregiver: Focuses on providing care and support for their little. May be less focused on sexual aspects of the dynamic and more on nurturing and emotional well-being.
• The Daddy Dom: Combines the paternalistic role with a dominant sexual presence. Enjoys taking control in both a caregiving and sexual context.
• The Friend/Companion Daddy: Prioritizes building a strong friendship alongside the D/lg dynamic. Focuses on shared interests and open communication. May be less strict with rules and more focused on mutual enjoyment.

Important Considerations:

• Age Play vs. Age Regression: Some Daddies focus specifically on age play (roleplaying as a parent), while others cater to littles who experience age regression (mentally reverting to a younger age).
• Personal Preferences: Every Daddy/Caregiver has their unique preferences and style. Communication is key to finding a good match.
• Consent and Safety: All D/lg relationships should be built on consent, respect, and open communication. Safety is paramount.

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

So happy to see this finally up! I hope it helps anybody that's needing the information! ♥

[Dangerously_Well]

To your most excellent point, I have been thinking about how to make this list more inclusive for various caregiver roles within the D/lg community! Here's how we can adapt it for Mommies and Caregivers/Babysitters:

For Mommies:

• Mostly, a simple swap: In most cases, you can simply replace "Daddy" with "Mommy" in the descriptions. The core dynamics and personality types often apply similarly.
• Highlight nurturing aspects: While all caregivers can be nurturing, you might want to emphasize this even more for Mommies, as that's often a strong association with the role.
• Consider additional archetypes: Think about Mommy-specific archetypes, like the "Playful Mommy" who loves silly games and dress-up, or the "Wise Mommy" who offers guidance and advice.

For Caregivers/Babysitters:

• Focus on non-romantic care: Emphasize the caregiving aspects without the romantic or explicitly parental elements.
• Highlight flexibility: Caregivers/babysitters might be more flexible in terms of age play, activities, and the level of structure they provide.
• Consider specific needs: Some littles might prefer a caregiver who focuses on specific needs, like helping with schoolwork, managing emotions, or providing a safe space for regression.

Here's how the adapted list might look (combining all roles):

Based on Personality/Dynamic:

• The Classic: A traditional, authoritative figure (Mommy/Daddy). Emphasizes rules, structure, and discipline, but also provides a strong sense of security and love.
• The Playful: Focuses on fun, games, and silliness. Encourages their little to embrace their childlike wonder. (Mommy/Daddy/Caregiver)
• The Nurturing: Prioritizes emotional care and support. Creates a safe and comforting environment. (Mommy/Daddy/Caregiver)
• The Gentle: A kind and patient caregiver. Emphasizes positive reinforcement and gentle guidance. (Mommy/Daddy/Caregiver)
• The Strict: Emphasizes rules, structure, and discipline. Believes in clear boundaries and consequences. (Mommy/Daddy/Caregiver)
• The Dom: A dominant figure who enjoys taking control in the relationship. May enjoy BDSM elements. (Mommy/Daddy)

Based on Focus:

• The Caregiver: Focuses on providing care and support. May be less focused on sexual aspects and more on nurturing and emotional well-being. (This can encompass both Mommy and non-romantic Caregiver/Babysitter roles)
• The Dom: Combines the parental/caregiving role with a dominant sexual presence. (Mommy/Daddy)
• The Friend/Companion: Prioritizes building a strong friendship alongside the D/lg dynamic. Focuses on shared interests and open communication. (Mommy/Daddy/Caregiver)

Important Considerations:

• Age Play vs. Age Regression: Applies to all roles.
• Personal Preferences: Communication is key to finding a good match, regardless of the specific roles involved.
• Consent and Safety: Paramount in all D/lg dynamics.

Remember, this is just a starting point, and there can be many variations and combinations of these styles. The most important thing is for individuals to find a dynamic that feels safe, fulfilling, and consensual for everyone involved.