Food for thought

[MommyDom41]

Well my darlings it's come time to close this chapter for the day. It's been a very busy day and I hope all of you have had a beautiful blessed day. 

And I wanted to let all of you know I know I use a lot of pet names but I don't do it for any bad reasons or trying to lead anyone on. I fear some of you might be thinking that, but in all honesty I do care for all of you in a non-sexual way.

I know this can be used for a dating platform, I want to use this for finding my friends, finding a place I belong, finding my extended family. And if I find love along the way then that would be amazing too.

Most of you on here are old enough to be my actual child so it actually brings the mom out of me not a Mommy Dom. I wish I could hug each and everyone of you and show you that you matter. 

So many of you just want someone to care for you. And just because I am not romantically involved with any of you that doesn't mean I don't want to care for you and want you to succeed.

At my job I am the Mom, and I love helping others. I love watching people grow and find their way in this life. 

Life is so hard and complicated, to me it's so nice to have one person to fall back on. I know most of you wont agree on what I am saying but for me, I just want to help and lift people up. Not lead them on or confuse them. 

Life is so hard and confusing as it is

Sorry for my little rant, take care sweet ones until next time, remember you are loved and you are so worthy of being loved 💝 

[Suzette]

Thank you ! You must be a great Mommy, I hope I find a Daddy who has that mentality too, that's what I need for my anxiety.

[MommyDom41]

Sweetheart if you ever need to talk please know my door is always open okay 💝

[Kittyara207]

You seem like you could be an awesome mommy.   

[MommyDom41]

Thank you kitty 💕

[Gambit]

me too, i'm here for making friends too.... i am not interested in ruining my ideal relationship over someone on a forum! lol i really try to avoid people catching feelings for me because i just go "no thank you! ❤️" and that may seem mean but it's a forum and not ddlg tinder lol so i get it. and im from the south so i get people have pet namey, nice language like calling people "sugar", "honey", "sweet pea", etc. if someone knows they want anybody to love them and not someone who can commit to loving them romantically they need to be reasonable with themselves and know sometimes other fish in the sea get snapped up by different whales passing by 😂 it can hurt but there's a lot of room for error in dating and romance. lord knows ive caught feelings for people that didn't like me like that! but i moved on, it's fine lol. im happily engaged now so i am definitely here for "i want friends, do you guys wanna share pictures of your favorite stuffed animals?" lol. some people are just very maternal/paternal even if they're in a lifestyle like this, outside of a scene, i think it comes with the territory with being a mommy or daddy dom sometimes lol. im really nice but i have to put my foot down because if anyone tells me "he doesn't need to know" i'm telling on them to my cg/fiance immediately and getting outta there lol. i don't like liars and cheaters! lol

that aside you seem really nice and i'm sorry people seem to be getting the wrong idea because of it. but even though im a little i wanted to say sometimes people will catch feelings for anyone online because they want literally anyone to love them, and it's definitely not their fault, but they need someone else who doesn't have their own life already built up lol. ive had a lot of people fall in puppy love with me and then they talk to me and realize i'm weird in a way they don't like anyway lol.  but for anyone reading who is looking for their mommy or daddy don't give up, someone out there will love and understand you and give you kisses and cuddles all you want and it'll be a wonderful time... you just gotta find em lol. it takes time for sure

[MommyDom41]

Gambit how wise you are, thank you for sharing your story. And you aren't weird my dear, I believe you are perfectly unique 💝

[wackadoodle]

You seem so sweet and I love this rant! I want more daddies and mommies to post these kinds of things, they're so heartwarming and reassuring❤️💮I'm sure you have a beautiful friendship circle and extended family based on how beautiful you are yourself^^wishing you many more!(this sounds like a happy birthday message now😂)

Here's a hug for being an awesome person and Mom/my❤️🤗

Edited 19 hours ago by wackadoodle

[MommyDom41]

Wackadoodle thank you for your kind words my darling. I do too wish that more mommies and daddies  would post more topics for Littles and even subs to talk about. It's hard to find people you connect with and on here I view everyone as my extended family. 

Wishing you warm hugs and lots of couples take care my darling 

Until next time we meet remember how much you are loved 💝

[คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

I'm also here just to be a friendly face on a forum board. I'm happily taken irl. ♡

I wasn't raised in the south, but I'm technically from the south. I still use their petnames on other sites, because I find them endearing.

Notice that I said *other* sites.

They aren't dating sites whatsoever, and even there I've had to explain myself and reassure a few times that I wasn't looking to flirt or be creepy.

I've been avoiding saying "hun" and "my dear" like the plague on here. Not just because of site rules, but also because of the type of site this is.

I strongly suggest doing the same. It totally sucks, but it helps keep my sanity in check.

I've been using more emotes to add that friendly filler that southern charm gives. Maybe try that? I'm on mobile and have easy access to all sorts of cute emotes.

Just a suggestion, hope it helps~

🦄 💜 🌈 🐑 🚀 🌦 ☔ 🌮 🎂 🍪 🥠

[beanbean]

Hopefully this is a safe space for all no  matter what your all looking for

[karan]

You are a great person and a mommy an anyone that thinks otherwise is not worth paying any attention or mind to.

[DLduck]

MommyDom.  You are so warm and sweet.  I just love your attitude and demeaner.  It woukd be great if more dommies were as open and willing to engage with the littles.    I only wish i would have met someone like you before i got older, and less desirable.   I truly wish you all the happiness you deserve, and find the human that makes you happy. 😁👍

[MommyDom41]

Oh duckie don't think negatively about yourself Hun. I know without a doubt there is someone who needs you just as much as you need them ❤️ 

[DLduck]

😊👍🥰

[MommyDom41]

OuO Alexibaaa thank you for your thoughtful insight. I never want to hurt anyone or over step my boundaries. I am from the South and I believe in the southern hospitality as well as Southern charm. Thank you again for your kind words. 💝

[คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

When you ping someone on here, you have to add the @ symbol in front of their username. The site should give username suggestions if you start typing after the @. Just so you're aware~

But yeah, I totally get it. Boundaries are important and particularly more rigid on a site like this. And from what I've seen, some people can get easily attached due to the nicknames, or be completely put off by them. You never really know which way it's going, until it's too late and you're explaining yourself. And I really don't wanna deal with those awkward consequences here, lol. I don't even shorten usernames here, for the same reason. Shortened usernames feel a lot like nicknames to me and I just don't want to be bothered by the potential drama they can cause.

But welcome to our little community~ It's nice to see a mommy around! You guys are a bit rare here. 

[MommyDom41]

@OuO Alexibaaa, I believe I did that correctly. And thank you again for your thoughtfulness. I will honestly take your words to heart, I never want someone to mistake my kindness for me leading them on. And I don't ever want to be known for hurting anyone. I have always been an endearing person who wants to lift everyone up. I never want one person to think they dont matter. Because it just takes one small act of kindness to make someone's whole day brighter. 

Again thank you for your words of wisdom

[คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

You did it right!

I enjoy spreading positivity as well, so I totally get where you're coming from! I'm glad I was able to give a good suggestion and I hope it works for you. I know it's not the same, but different doesn't mean bad or unusable.