How a Dad should court a little

[redruffle41]

Hi loved ones!!!

OMG this little and Daddy dynamic is so fun. Also wow, if I hadn't been in therapy for years prior to this learning communication and self regulation skills this would have gone way more off the rails that it may already have (debatable).

This leads me to the idea of LTR and forever littles and forever daddies and all of this chaotic, romantic hoopla. Let's be real. Even though this is bdsm we are all still human.  As humans we have been taught by Disney and every movie ever made that we should all  be on the ever long quest of looking for the ONE <insert angelic music>. 

I am one of those foolish, foolish people who would probably be better served if I was just a lesbian farmer somewhere or poly and could be fine with that. But I'm not. I am who I am. I'm 41, hopelessly romantic, addicted to dopamine, oxytocin and cheese, and I like romance novels and beauty and the beast and tarzan. Also, I've only had two serious relationships before this in my life. I also apparently have a very kinky side that I knew about but I didn't KNOW until that drawer got opened (v. fun but also I haven't slept a wink this week)

So here's my poll and I want all of you to share and all of you to weigh in and be the lovely folks I know you are:

How do you want to be courted as a little?

How do you court a prospective partner?

In meeting a little how do you roll out checking in on kinks that may or may not match up? 

How do you measure the kind of Daddy you're interacting with?

Talking via text, dating, LDR, then let's heap on all the mind-blowing aspects of bdsm onto that. How has it played out for you? Any words of wisdom to this foolish foolish person that happens to be Jane and love Tarzan? 😜