KnickKnack Posted February 20 Report Posted February 20 I posted this under General then I was invited to this club, so I’m posting it here. Someone I considered to be a best friend ended our friendship. Not the best “day before my birthday” I’ve had.
redruffle41 Posted February 20 Report Posted February 20 Knickknack!!! I'm so sorry! What do u need me to do? U want me to take them out? Buy Ben &Jerry's? What's the plan? Revenge? Icecream, movies? Wine? How do we get through this? All joking aside. I had a friend from 6th grade dump me after 20 years of friendship. She got a shitty boyfriend that was a complete asshole and everyone knew it and I should have been more ride or die about it but a bunch of us friends all called bullshit and she dropped us. I hope your friend had reasons that you can someday make sense of. I hope u don't think it's all about u. I hope ur willing to learn if there was something u could've done differently. But in the end in a relationship u have to be willing to communicate and stay....and some people just don't or can't or won't. Sorry for your loss. I hope it's for the best. <Goes to get spoons😏>
MasterPhotog Posted February 20 Report Posted February 20 3 hours ago, KnickKnack said: I posted this under General then I was invited to this club, so I’m posting it here. Someone I considered to be a best friend ended our friendship. Not the best “day before my birthday” I’ve had. Thank you for joining our club – we're so happy to have you with us. I’m truly sorry to hear about the loss of your friendship and the breakup with your best friend, especially on your birthday. It’s incredibly tough when someone you trust and care about suddenly pulls away. Regardless of the reasons behind your friend’s decision—perhaps they've found someone else to connect with—please remember, it’s not a reflection of you. While the end of a friendship is painful, I’m confident that in time, your friend may realize what’s been lost and could reach out to rebuild the relationship. Or, you may meet someone new who genuinely values and appreciates your friendship, and you'll form a meaningful connection. I wish you the best of luck! For now, it's best to focus on enjoying your birthday. Don’t blame yourself. Stay busy with the things you love—enjoy the walks, the fresh air, and the open-air music parties that Oregon is famous for. Surround yourself with people who truly appreciate and value your company. If you ever want to talk about anything that may be on your mind, we’re here for you.
beanbean Posted February 20 Report Posted February 20 3 hours ago, KnickKnack said: I posted this under General then I was invited to this club, so I’m posting it here. Someone I considered to be a best friend ended our friendship. Not the best “day before my birthday” I’ve had. Sorry this happened to you I know this is hard and hopefully your heart heals from this
KnickKnack Posted February 21 Author Report Posted February 21 19 hours ago, redruffle41 said: Knickknack!!! I'm so sorry! What do u need me to do? U want me to take them out? Buy Ben &Jerry's? What's the plan? Revenge? Icecream, movies? Wine? How do we get through this? All joking aside. I had a friend from 6th grade dump me after 20 years of friendship. She got a shitty boyfriend that was a complete asshole and everyone knew it and I should have been more ride or die about it but a bunch of us friends all called bullshit and she dropped us. I hope your friend had reasons that you can someday make sense of. I hope u don't think it's all about u. I hope ur willing to learn if there was something u could've done differently. But in the end in a relationship u have to be willing to communicate and stay....and some people just don't or can't or won't. Sorry for your loss. I hope it's for the best. <Goes to get spoons😏> Thank you for your very humorous reply.
LittleBiscut Posted February 21 Report Posted February 21 Hope your ok! That really sucks! Try to have some me time! Self care time? Do some thing you like doing? Or eat a favourite snack like icecream ❤️ 🥹🥹 1 1
Dangerously_Well Posted February 21 Report Posted February 21 Oh no, that's awful! I'm so sorry to hear that. Losing a friend is always tough, but it's especially painful when it's someone you considered a best friend. And to have it happen right before your birthday makes it even worse. It's okay to feel sad, angry, confused, or any other emotion you're experiencing right now. Losing a close friend can be like going through a breakup, and it's important to allow yourself time to grieve and process those feelings. If you want to talk about it more, I'm here to listen. Sometimes just getting things off your chest can help. And if you need any distractions or cheering up, I'm happy to offer some silly jokes, fun facts, or anything else that might help. Remember, you're not alone in this. Even though it might feel like it right now, there are people who care about you and want to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out to them for comfort and company. And try to focus on the positive things in your life, even though it's hard right now. You have a birthday coming up, and that's still something to celebrate. You deserve to have a good day, even if it's not the one you originally planned. Sending you lots of virtual hugs and warm wishes. I hope things get better soon. And most importantly: HAPPY BITRHDAY!!! 1 1
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