Is there something wrong with me?

[MommyDom41]

Hi to all out there but I wanted advice from others insight to maybe help me understand aspects about myself.

I have noticed when a normal vanilla guy begins to talk to me I get well put off. As if he's wasting my time and his. I have been told I can come off rude and I don't mean to be this way.

Yet when a shy or submissive person comes my way I find myself being bubbly and outgoing. I know it's all connected to my Mommy side but there must be something I can do to be less intimidating.

I'm 4'10 so I am not by any means frightening to look at, but I have tried to be friendly towards most vanilla guys and they see me as flirting with them, or trying to be easy. Which I hate, sorry for my little rant. Thank you for listening! 💕💕💕💝💝

Take care sweet ones 💋 

[DLduck]

Hi MommyDom,

i dont think theres anything wrong with you.   I think its more of a conundrum for those of us with a strong submissive side,  to know how each dommie wants to be approached.  You are a very rare type in this lifestyle, so we dont want to blow it feom the get go.   There are so many rude and selfish guys out there that pester a real dommie, that we may not open up are kinky side in a conversation right away, in fear of coming across as just one more needy selfish guy.    I am definitely not vanilla, but I cant help feeling intimidated by a true mommy dom, and a bit unsure in my responses.
I hope that gives atleast s little insight,  and maybe, just maybe, there's a  kinky subbie hiding behind the initial chat ?? 
Ducky 😔

[DaddyABQ]

It sounds like, if you meet someone who doesn't mesh with you and with whom you don't have chemistry, you aren't into it. Maybe that's reductive, but I see no issue with that at all.

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think it's pretty normal to have preferences like this.

[beanbean]

9 hours ago, MommyDom41 said:

Hi to all out there but I wanted advice from others insight to maybe help me understand aspects about myself.

I have noticed when a normal vanilla guy begins to talk to me I get well put off. As if he's wasting my time and his. I have been told I can come off rude and I don't mean to be this way.

Yet when a shy or submissive person comes my way I find myself being bubbly and outgoing. I know it's all connected to my Mommy side but there must be something I can do to be less intimidating.

I'm 4'10 so I am not by any means frightening to look at, but I have tried to be friendly towards most vanilla guys and they see me as flirting with them, or trying to be easy. Which I hate, sorry for my little rant. Thank you for listening! 💕💕💕💝💝

Take care sweet ones 💋 

Nothing wrong with you sounds like simply know what you want and that’s a good thing

[MommyDom41]

Thank you all for the kind words, I work in the medical field and I don't ever want to come off rude or hateful to anyone. 

It's such a rare thing to find people who can understand and connect with you. So thank you making me feel a little less alone ❤️ 

[Beanie19]

In my opinion it just sounds like you know what you want and don’t want and don’t accept less that’s sounds like dom mommy energy to me 

[karan]

Hi Mommy,
First of you are not rude at all, if someone sees that when they talk to you then they are projecting their insecurities on you. Someone can assume you are being intimidating when you aren't that does not make it true, not everyone has the same opinion. Also opinions are just opinions and shouldn't affect you, someone's insecurities should not influence your thoughts about yourself...you are kind and amazing... these days people mistake kindness for flirting so I guess there is no room for kindness anymore. Your rants and anyone else's are always welcome, there is no need for anyone to bottle up because it doesn't help in anyway. I hope this make sense...

[MommyDom41]

Thank you for the kind words Karan, it just bothers me that people think I am rude. I don't mean to be that way, and yes when I am being friendly I get the oh you want me attitude. 

I always try to be fair and equal to everyone I meet. I just don't ever want someone I meet to purposely think I went out of my way to be rude to them. 

[karan]

You are not rude at all please ignore people like those ❤️