Clinginess

[redruffle41]

You guys,

I just realized I am very clingy. I'm new to ddlg but I have ALWAYS been clingy. Like, if I don't talk my head off and get constant reassurance that I don't talk too much then I don't feel safe. Lol!! Anyone else want to weigh in on clinginess and how it feels to them? Daddies and little both can say why this aspect works for them or really doesn't. 

[LittleBiscut]

I am super clingy and possessive, I often restrain myself. I wanna love all over and cuddle never let go kisses and even follow them to work in their pocket if I could I would! I just wanna know all about them and see them smile all the time! I wanna be little and feeling clingy is often a huge part of that 🥹🤫

[LittleBiscut]

P.s I am so glad someone made a topic for this ❤️

[Gambit]

im clingy too!!! but in like a, "i had to recover from being really mentally ill" way so i stop myself if i'm getting too anxious or upset because it was on me for not communicating that i felt lonely lol. i have a home job for now (commission work occasionally) and my cg goes out and has a location he goes to for work. it's literally that scene from spongebob that's like "well, what do you normally do when i'm gone?" "wait for you to get back!" lol i will basically walk around the house and do nothing because i'm sad that he's at work, or take a nap so i can fast forward to seeing him lol. i always wanna lay on him and get kissed and get supportive sayings. it makes me happy to see him lol

[LittleBiscut]

Gambit 🤗🤗🤗🤗 hugs for you! I am like that I miss all the time! I wanna cuddle all the time. If I could if they were on the loo I would be outside the door like “talking to them about anything just to I could be close” 😅

I personally apologise way to much! I want stuff and I say sorry for it all the time 🥹🥹

p.s that’s so cute ☺️ 

[Gambit]

i literally do talk to him on the toilet LOL we're very comfortable with each other so it's not a problem 😂 sometimes being clingy works out when you've been together for like 8 years and spent a lot of it 2 hours away from each other.... so now i don't get distracted gaming for too long because he's in the room with me all the time if he's home!!! so now he gets the full clingy fiance action lol. moving in together was really good for our relationship.... some people, it ruins theirs, but i was just like YAYYYY FOREVER SLEEPOVER lol. if i can wake up on time i make him coffee, i make him tasty dinner, and if i have some extra money i buy him snacks.... as a little thank you lol. i feel like it can be real little hours being like a little crow and being like "i saw this toy at the dollar store and it made me think of you...." lol i like baking too if i'm small i've made him muffins and chocolate chip cookies and a peanut butter cookie cake. sometimes it's harder to stir stuff though.... lol if you find someone who lets you be clingy and supports you being a little weird don't let go lol

[LittleBiscut]

Gambit 🤗 that’s so amazing!! 🥹🥹🥰 I think that’s so great! I wanna chat to you more! I followed you! 🤗🥰

[MasterPhotog]

15 hours ago, redruffle41 said:

You guys,

I just realized I am very clingy. I'm new to ddlg but I have ALWAYS been clingy. Like, if I don't talk my head off and get constant reassurance that I don't talk too much then I don't feel safe. Lol!! Anyone else want to weigh in on clinginess and how it feels to them? Daddies and little both can say why this aspect works for them or really doesn't. 

I know not all feel the same way as I do, however I absolutely love 'littles' who are clingy and want reassurance at at times. Being clingy, in my opinion, is an important part of being a 'little'. This not only lets me know that my reassurance is important for my little, but also it helps me know on the area to work and support her in order to help build my 'littles' self esteem and confidence. 

On the other hand if and when 'little' starts to feel and act 'big' 100% of the time, obviously it's no longer a DDlg relationship. 

[redruffle41]

9 hours ago, LittleBiscut said:

I am super clingy and possessive, I often restrain myself. I wanna love all over and cuddle never let go kisses and even follow them to work in their pocket if I could I would! I just wanna know all about them and see them smile all the time! I wanna be little and feeling clingy is often a huge part of that 🥹🤫

I love this very much bc I want to live inside my daddy right next to his heart and his rib and this is very biblical in a coincidence way but seems very poetical and connected to that God Bible story. But it's how I feel so deep and so much that I feel I will never get close enough.

[beanbean]

I think being clingy can be great as daddy’s we love to be needed and that’s one way to feel needed

[Liamo]

I would imagine most Daddies enjoy that side of a little. I know i do. However, there is one side I did not like, and it was when my last partner was always saying she was sorry. She would apologize ALL the time. We worked on that and she stopped. Saying I am sorry all the time is not only annoying, it shows weakness. I want my little to be fragile, but not weak. I want her to learn to be a strong person who knows what she wants, and mostly, knows her self worth. She can be as clingy as she wants, but not weak. (I hope I am making sense here). Being clingy is a way a little will show love for her Daddy, and he will appreciate it. If it becomes too much for him, he should have the maturity to redirect her in a loving way that will make her feel good about herself. Would you be mean to a puppy who nip at you for attention? Of course not. Well, this is the same thing. You never get upset with a little showing you her love. 

[SoulEater]

19 hours ago, beanbean said:

I think being clingy can be great as daddy’s we love to be needed and that’s one way to feel needed

This is the way 

[Liamo]

For any little out there who has difficulties being alone, here is a nice quick lecture on the difference of being alone and loneliness:

 

[karan]

As a daddy, I would definitely love to have a clingy little one, it makes me feel important and wanted by the little one. I can't speak for others, but I would love the constant reassurance by a little one that I matter to her, one of the ways I guess would help is if they are clingy. We as daddies need to feel loved to and I believe I speak for alot of daddies when I say this.

[Bluedragon]

I prefer a fair amount of clingy, it’s part of what makes me feel important as well. As with all things there’s a balance, so it’s always best to know just how clingy to be with whoever you are in a relationship with