Daddies/Mommies Past

[karan]

Hi all, hope you are having a good day ,

This is just a post asking daddies/mommies if they have a hard time finding their little one?. Mostly for me it's because of my past and what a couple of littles did. I am over the past but there are things like my self confidence and self esteem that are low. I just recently started looking for a little one, because I am ready to start exploring again, but it feels like I'll put in the efforts but the little one would not. It just feels hard finding someone that actually wants this, or am I just being paranoid?

Anyway thanks for reading my little rant and hope you have an amazing day/night in whatever part of the world you are in, oh and happy hearts day. ❤️

Edited February 14 by karan

[MommyDom41]

No you aren't being paranoid sweetheart, you will find your forever. It can take a while to find the right person who needs you as much as you need them. Just don't give up.

[Kittyara207]

I had a hard time.   But it wasn't finding a little.  Takes a lot out of you when your heart gets stomped on.  Littles/Middles do it to CGs.  And CG's do it to them.  Unfortunately it happens.   Being all worried and paranoid is normal after this happens.  And it's hard to stay positive and optimistic sometimes.   Makes you almost want to give up on this and move on.  

But, I have to agree with @MommyDom41 don't give up.  Sometimes when you least expect it things, just kind of fall into place.   Here's to everyone finding their happy.   No matter what their happy will be. I hope everyone does.  It feels amazing.  

[karan]

8 hours ago, MommyDom41 said:

No you aren't being paranoid sweetheart, you will find your forever. It can take a while to find the right person who needs you as much as you need them. Just don't give up.

Thank you so much it means alot to me, thank you for encouraging me and for the kind words. ♡♡

[karan]

2 hours ago, Kittyara207 said:

I had a hard time.   But it wasn't finding a little.  Takes a lot out of you when your heart gets stomped on.  Littles/Middles do it to CGs.  And CG's do it to them.  Unfortunately it happens.   Being all worried and paranoid is normal after this happens.  And it's hard to stay positive and optimistic sometimes.   Makes you almost want to give up on this and move on.  

But, I have to agree with @MommyDom41 don't give up.  Sometimes when you least expect it things, just kind of fall into place.   Here's to everyone finding their happy.   No matter what their happy will be. I hope everyone does.  It feels amazing.  

Thank you so much, I definitely understand that both sides face almost the same issue, it's just sad when a cg/little ghosts you after you invest time and energy and enjoy talking to them.

 

Nonetheless, I agree and won't give up ill keep trying. Thank you for the kind words ♡♡