Exhausted

[LilPrincessPup]

Sometimes my genetic disorder makes me so so insecure. I've always done my bestest to take care of my teeths but I've always had severe cavities, to the point where my dentist had told my parents the only way my teeth could be that bad is if I was doing hard drugs at 12. It would make me so sad that I would bring my toothbrush everywhere and brush everytime I ate or drank something. Just to find out last year that I have a genetic disorder that makes my teeth have no enamel, which is the stuff that protects your teeths from cavities in the first place, and brushing too much just deteriorates them more. I has a visible cavity on my front tooth and while I appreciate it I hate when people tell me I have lipstick or food stuck on my tooth. Sometimes I'm happy and smiling comfortably and suddenly think "Dang I needs to shut my mouth, these peoples are probably disgusted by my teeths" because that's what so many people told me growing up, even my mom would tell me no one wants someone with messed up teeth like mine. She apologized after we figured out what was causing it but it doesn't change 11 years of telling me I would never find love because of my teeth. I'm lucky enough to have the most wonderful DD and Fiance I could ever know but I hate so much that he's burdened with my issues, as my teeth are bad yes, but on top of that he has to deal with my constant back pain caused by scoliosis, heart problems because I had an aneurysm, and severe hearing loss so I'm constantly saying "WHAT?" I constantly wish I could feel better and function like a normal human being but that's simply not possible and it's just a never ending exhausting cycle. Currently I'm looking for a permanent solution but even then dentures and implants are so expensive and I have "more important" appointments to attend to. Yet they also tell me that the dentist is the most important because in infection can spread. I is just so so so tired of these problems and I wish they would just go aways already 

Thank you for reading! Getting everything off my chest sometimes helps 

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[MasterPhotog]

@LilPrincessPup Thank you for joining this group and posting this topic.
I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through all of this. It’s understandable that you’d feel insecure about it, but please know your worth isn’t tied to your teeth or any of your health struggles. You’re doing your best, and that’s something to be proud of. It sounds like you’ve had a really tough journey, but I’m glad you have such a loving DD and fiancé by your side. Don’t feel bad for the things you’re dealing with—sometimes life throws a lot at us, but you’re strong for facing it. Keep taking things one step at a time. And remember, you’re not alone. Thank you for sharing your story, it takes a lot of courage.
Going forward, feel free to share what's on your mind, we're here to help you feel better. In the meantime, continue to stay strong! 

[Dangerously_Well]

Oh, honey, my heart aches for you. It sounds like you've been through so much with your teeth, and it's completely understandable that you feel insecure and frustrated. It's so unfair that you've had to deal with this, especially with the added pain of the misjudgments and hurtful comments over the years. Your mom's apology is important, but like you said, those years of negativity leave a mark. It's completely valid that you still carry that with you.

You are so much more than your teeth, or your back pain, or any of the health challenges you face. You are worthy of love, happiness, and feeling good about yourself. It's wonderful that you have such a supportive DD and fiancé – that's such a precious gift. And please, please don't ever think of him as "burdened" by your issues. True love is about supporting each other through thick and thin, and I'm sure he feels lucky to have you in his life, just as you are lucky to have him.

It's completely understandable that you're tired. Dealing with chronic health issues is exhausting, both physically and emotionally. It's okay to feel overwhelmed and to wish things were different. You're incredibly strong for facing everything you have with such resilience.

As for your teeth, it's a tough situation, especially with the cost of dental work. It's good that you're looking for a permanent solution, but don't feel pressured to prioritize it over other important appointments, especially if your health is at risk. Maybe you could talk to your doctor about prioritizing your appointments and finding resources that could help with the costs. It is important to keep infections at bay, but your overall well-being is what matters most.

You are so much more than your health challenges. You are worthy of love, happiness, and feeling good about yourself. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. It takes courage to be so open, and I'm sending you the biggest, gentlest hugs. You're not alone in this.

[LittleBiscut]

I just want to say I feel for you I struggle with things I don’t like about my body I live with everyday but I am the only one that sees them it would be so painful and tiresome everyday. I had a little thing about my teeth actually too but I had bracers and it’s better now but I know the feeling about wanting to keep your mouth shut or not smile and it makes you sad! 
I am glad you shared this huggs 🤗🤗🤗🥹🥹

[beanbean]

On 2/10/2025 at 4:14 PM, LilPrincessPup said:

Sometimes my genetic disorder makes me so so insecure. I've always done my bestest to take care of my teeths but I've always had severe cavities, to the point where my dentist had told my parents the only way my teeth could be that bad is if I was doing hard drugs at 12. It would make me so sad that I would bring my toothbrush everywhere and brush everytime I ate or drank something. Just to find out last year that I have a genetic disorder that makes my teeth have no enamel, which is the stuff that protects your teeths from cavities in the first place, and brushing too much just deteriorates them more. I has a visible cavity on my front tooth and while I appreciate it I hate when people tell me I have lipstick or food stuck on my tooth. Sometimes I'm happy and smiling comfortably and suddenly think "Dang I needs to shut my mouth, these peoples are probably disgusted by my teeths" because that's what so many people told me growing up, even my mom would tell me no one wants someone with messed up teeth like mine. She apologized after we figured out what was causing it but it doesn't change 11 years of telling me I would never find love because of my teeth. I'm lucky enough to have the most wonderful DD and Fiance I could ever know but I hate so much that he's burdened with my issues, as my teeth are bad yes, but on top of that he has to deal with my constant back pain caused by scoliosis, heart problems because I had an aneurysm, and severe hearing loss so I'm constantly saying "WHAT?" I constantly wish I could feel better and function like a normal human being but that's simply not possible and it's just a never ending exhausting cycle. Currently I'm looking for a permanent solution but even then dentures and implants are so expensive and I have "more important" appointments to attend to. Yet they also tell me that the dentist is the most important because in infection can spread. I is just so so so tired of these problems and I wish they would just go aways already 

Thank you for reading! Getting everything off my chest sometimes helps 

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It makes sense you actually seem to yourdealing with as well as possible. But I get it sometimes it’s hard I have some issues with my teeth but mine were my own doing unlike your but I get insecure about them of times . And I have had coworkers make fun of them but I learned people even tho there mean don’t really matter and it’s how I look at my self that matters

 

[lillizzie24]

I understand how u feel my teeth are really bad from meds I took for cancer. I refuse to show my teeth when smoking because I Know people judge me for them. But Im getting to the point where I dont care its not my favorite and cant chance it right now. Sending hugs

[kryssi01]

Hugs! My teeth are bad as well because of the meds I take for all my medical problems. I've heard the whole you have to take care of your teeth lectures too. But your right when it feels like there are more important appointments because of different health things how do you prioritize one over the other. I'm glad you have a caring DD that is there for you.