Do littles actually find daddy’s

[Mkprincesss]

hello this is my second time posting here I was having some trouble figuring it out but thanks to some very nice people I think I’m finally getting the hang of it !! 
 

I guess my big question is for both littles and the daddy’s here. 
 

first question: do littles actually find real daddy’s and caregivers on here or are they nonexistent in general. 
 

second question: if the answer is yes to my first question how did you meet your daddy or cg I have heard a lot of people get into a relationship and bring it up after dating for a while ? Is that the route to go and have you lost that person because of it? 
 

third question: are there any people from Alberta Canada or close daddy’s and littles alike I would like to possibly meet another little and be able to hang out and talk openly with eachother about what it’s like and so on? 
 

if you have read this far thank you for taking the time to read my post and comment if you did!! 
 

also a little about me! 
im 21 years old my little age is 1.5-2 I like to colour, read, write, draw and much more!! 

[Little kaiya]

Absolutely littles and Daddies find each other. My Daddy and I have been together for 7 years now. We met at a furry conference actually. It was both His and my first time going to one. We ended up hanging out all weekend then two weeks later He asked me to date.

We discussed Cgl fairly early on in our relationship as it was an important consideration for us both.

We're in Canada but not close to Alberta at all.

[.คℓ𝐞ﾒเᏰααα .ᐟ]

1) Found my Mommy online, not this site, but same ddlg theme. So, I'd say that people do have a chance here. Just keep actively participating and looking.

2) We met on a dating site that sadly no longer exists. This site is a great resource/dating replacement though.

3) I'm personally not from Canada (still rather chatty), but I'm sure there are Canadians here. But starting off as an LDR, with intent to relocate, might be something you'd find useful. That's what I did, but thankfully, Mommy wasn't too far away.

♡

 

[beanbean]

I think it’s definitely possible and have heard of it happening on here as well 

[SoulEater]

Second post! Your getting the hang of this

 

to answer your questions I would say yes, littles and Care givers can and have found each other via here, it does take time however, you want to work at a friendship and build from there this way things will have a solid foundation.

 

the best way to meet a potential CG is be active, comment on posts, share a status update now and then, this does two things 1, it lets people get to know you a little and 2, it almost advertises your name, I know in the last week or so several people I have seen active now and see post and comment often and I’d like to be their friends as I share similar views and values.

 

unfortunately I am from Scotland so not near you at all, however if your happy to have an online friendship I could always do with more friends  I’m collecting friends like pokemon cards 🫢 some are common and just stay for the added number on their side, some are rare and have good chats etc then you get Shiny ones these I would consider close friends, we chat often and have some on other platforms.

 

in summery MK, enjoy your time, don’t force things and make some awesome friends along the way

[Kubi207]

I'm fairly certain some littles have found their daddy/mommy/caregiver on here. This is kind of a niche interest and one that people are often reserved about. So we're all a bit spread out and not everyone can handle a long distance relationship. CG/L is especially hard to do long distance in my opinion.

I met all the littles I've interacted with via FetLife. The first two I met at a littles munch we had which unfortunately fizzled away due to lack of interest. The organizer offered to let me take over running it but I declined. They ended up just being little platonic friends however as they already had other partners. They still come up to visit me and let me care for them a few times a year. One lives three hours away and the other two. After the munch ended up fizzling away I posted a few personal ads over on Fet. It took a while but I gotten three responses that were localish over a year and a half. The first I hung out a lot with however it ended up fizzling out after six months or so. I ended up catching feelings for them and when I confessed these feelings to them they ended up hitting me back with "Oh, I could never love someone who is my caregiver." It took a while for me to rebound from that. About four months after that break up another little reached out to me on Fet. We hung out a few times however we weren't really compatible. They liked to brat and I don't care for that. Then the last little I've met was via Fet again. We started chatting in November then finally hung out mid December. It felt we were compatible however they were 13 years younger than me. I told them I'd need time to see if I could get comfortable with that and to see if there was chemistry. They had me promise I'd let them know as soon as I thought I think it could work. By the third time we met (four weeks since the first meet) I told them I though this could work, only to be rejected as they had already found someone a couple weeks ago that was interested in being a caregiver on Tinder after they talked to them about it. This kind of turned into a rant, sorry about that but like any kind of relationship they don't all work. Don't be discouraged if the first person you met doesn't work out. Also don't settle for a crappy partner.

FetLife really isn't great for finding people into CG/L, especially if you're more just into the cuter aspects of it. It's just kind of the "default" place to look if you have some kink. As for other areas to check. I've seen littles on occasion on the various dating apps. Specifically Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, and Boo. They are rare but they're on there. I'd be hesitant to straight up put that in your bio on those apps but you could drop subtle hints. Then if you match you could subtlety quiz them about it. Discord is another option as well as Reddit and this site. Depending on how rural the area is where you live you might need to pursue multiple avenues on finding people. Also trust your instincts, review the red flags post on here. If it sounds fishy or doesn't add up with the person you're talking to trust your instincts. There are a ton of people out there that "just want to be called daddy in bed" as my littles say.

I unfortunately don't live in Canada or even close to the mid west in the US. Honestly I'd suggest checking FetLife first to see if there is a littles munch (not a general kink one!) in your area. That's your best and quickest avenue if available as it will give you connections and a lot of this is all networking. Don't be afraid if its a ways away. I was driving two hours one way to attend the littles much we had up here while it existed.

Thank you for posting and I hope you find your partner.

[Aikko]

1. I met my Daddy thru this site, so it’s certainly possible. 
2. we began building our relationship as friends, chatting back and forth, then calls and eventually we wanted to meet up in person. We did mee in person, the chemistry was great and we began a LDR. From there circumstances changed for me personally and I ended up moving in with him. We’ve been together just about 9 months now. 
3. I’m not in Canada personally, but my Daddy and I were 6 hrs apart and I was open to relocation. That was an option that worked for us. 

[SoulEater]

Just a side note Kubi’s message there, if you do decide to check Fet just be careful as there is a lot of pornography/nudity and other kinks, you have to weave through the trees to find the meadows so to say

[Liamo]

I had the exact same question as you but in reverse. Can you find a little here? I am a hopeful romantic, so I want to believe that the answer is yes. I am actively looking for my forever little. I want her to live with me, so I am looking locally ofcourse, but who knows, maybe she is in Canada, and is tired of the cold and the snow, and would love to relocate down south. 😊. It is not an easy process to find your other half when you do not go to the dating apps, and do not spend time in bars / clubs. I believe that the majority of people here are genuine, but do be careful. We have our share of con artists who try to slither in. For the most part I think we have a pretty healthy and safe environment here. 

Maybe post a description of the type of relationship you desire. Explain the type of daddy you want. When you do so, do not just focus on the daddy part, but also the man part. What mental, social, physical attributes are you looking for. Do you want an extrovert or introvert? Do you want a man close in age to you, older, much older, or are you indifferent about that? Do you want a man who travels or does staycations? Is social status important for you? Do you want a daddy that can support you financially or do you want to be an equal partner in that domain? The more detailed you will be, the clearer you are in your mind about the man you want to attract,, the better chances you will have in finding your forever daddy. Send me a follow request and we can continue that conversation in private.

[Kittyara207]

It's tough to connect over long distances but it can be done I know of a handful that have found their 'happy' here.  

And I found 2 so far that were amazing 'Daddy' types.  One for reasons didn't work out well due to things outside of either of our control.  And the current one I have met in person after talking to for quite some time.  And going to meet again in less than a month.  

 Just remember, so much can be lost in communication and ways of understanding through a text.  Because the voice is not there, the mannerisms the facial expressions so it's hard to always comprehend what the other person meant.  I have found that if something upsets you take a few minutes or a day and then tell them what upsets you and why don't just stop.  And be honest with yourself. Make a list even if it's just for you of what you're looking for.   

Make a list of what you are looking for, what you do not want and what you are willing to compromise and leave the part that you're willing to compromise to yourself.  Make a personal and spend your time filling it out. And don't be afraid edit it as you realize things have changed in your mind.   Don't be hasty.  The right person for you will come along and it'll be like why didn't I meet them earlier? Wish I had, and it feels like You've been talking forever but yet not long enough.    It'll be like tada!!!!  And you'll be so glad you reached out.   Or that they reached out.  

Pay attention to red flags, and be safe.  Nothing's wrong with talking on the site and then moving on to another place when you feel safe and comfortable.  Good luck.

And yes as you can tell I have a tendency to ramble on, get distracted and then circle back around.   So happy I found my happy.

[Donatus]

I have found my little through this fine website so i certainly say yes.
We are very happy together and the dynamic is great. 

[Josey Wales]

Yes it is very possible, true it can be difficult but not impossible for those who are patient and sincere. If for nothing else this venue can lead to good friendship’s

. Timing , fate and a little help from the Gods one never knows what the next sunrise will bring to your day , that Daddy , Caregiver, little middle whoever could just possibly be reading these posts right now  

How great is it that we have a place to discuss things and how appreciative we should all be to the people who have given us this place to communicate with one another