Trouble keeping people around.

[Guest Lilkittygirl]

Hi. I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but it seems like the best place. Lately I have had a lot of issues with keeping people around. I try to make little friends and even meet possible daddies but I feel like every time I find someone I really like they aren't really interested in me? We will talk all the time then they kind of just stop.. Does anyone else have this issue? Can anyone give me some advice on what to do? I just get tired of being the only one wanting to talk or trying.

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

One question: are these friends that you meet online?

[Guest Lilkittygirl]

One question: are these friends that you meet online?

Mostly yes

[Pure Heart Dom]

Well, I can't speak for them or anyone else but myself. This has happened to me, some little friends just abruptly stop. Sometimes life happens and they get pulled away because of their situation, it's sometimes not entirely their fault. However, if it is because they didn't want my company anymore, it doesn't really bother me, because I am confident in myself enough to know that they're missing out lol

But I know what you mean, it is annoying and frustrating. Honestly, if they just stop talking to you, don't be sad, I'm sure you're an amazing one, and they just couldn't see it :3

[Guest Lilkittygirl]

Well, I can't speak for them or anyone else but myself. This has happened to me, some little friends just abruptly stop. Sometimes life happens and they get pulled away because of their situation, it's sometimes not entirely their fault. However, if it is because they didn't want my company anymore, it doesn't really bother me, because I am confident in myself enough to know that they're missing out lol

But I know what you mean, it is annoying and frustrating. Honestly, if they just stop talking to you, don't be sad, I'm sure you're an amazing one, and they just couldn't see it :3

Thanks

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

It's kind of hard to read people when it comes to online friendships/relationships so their intentions could be totally different. Don't let that get to you though because you can and will meet some amazing people, especially on this website

[WisconsinDaddy]

As in life friends come and go and hopefully you can enjoy good conversation and meet some wonderful people, I also think you can build some strong long lasting relationships that will stand the test of time. 

[Guest Lilkittygirl]

As in life friends come and go and hopefully you can enjoy good conversation and meet some wonderful people, I also think you can build some strong long lasting relationships that will stand the test of time.

Everytime I tink I've built a strong long lasting it's like they disappear and don't have time for me...

[Guest Lilla]

Sometimes things come up in peoples lives and they can't talk anymore, but I don't think its okay to disappear without saying something first at least. It's happened to me a few times as well and I know how upsetting it can be. I think that if situations like that happen its kind of a sign that the relationship wasn't meant to be. I know its really difficult to be objective in that position but there are lots of people out there and its just a matter of finding the right one, those people weren't but soon enough you'll find someone. Its so important to remember that you aren't the problem and that all you can do in those situations is move on and keep being yourself.

[Guest Olderdaddyca]

The reality is that 95% or more of Daddys and littles live in a fantasy world and only want to play online. They will find a new fetish, get caught by spouse, friends or parents, or discover it is not really what they seek and just move on. The reality is that DDlg is not accepted at in any way by society. Never will be, as it is not understood. Is a hard dynamic to find and live in real life but worth the wait.