i just want to be happy for once

[lil_baby_fox]

from the constant "good luck tee hee" to the broad stroke assumptions to the constant let downs of trying to find someone who is compassionate kind caring and will actually care for and about me and only ever getting men who laugh at me mock me call me names gaslit me and will only talk to me for as long as it takes to order a pizza i don't know if im cut out to b a babygirl anymore 

i dont know if im asking to much or what i've been told that im not cut out to be a babygirl that "if you didnt want randoms texting you take down your add LOL" to being told that i'm that desperate that i'll call anyone daddy which is the furthest thing from true its not a crime to want someone in your life is it? to want someone to talk to you and be sincere for once? to still be there when your done taking a shower? it's not normal to check your phone is see the person you thought liked you who told you he enjoyed talking to you blocking and ghosting you is it? 

maybe it's a crime for me to want someone since i'm not poly and I'm looking to be someones one and only girl? am i being punished somehow for being monogamous? is that it? poly people can throw a net and come back with a harem of partners when I can't even find one... maybe i should give up and be poly instead at least ill belong to someone even if i have to be on the bottom of the ladder and share a bed and a life with 10 other people.... better then being a worthless pathetic monogamous girl huh? i was told once that Daddy's don't like to share i guess that was another lie i was told ill add that to the pile...

[MasterPhotog]

4 hours ago, sweet baby fox said:

from the constant "good luck tee hee" to the broad stroke assumptions to the constant let downs of trying to find someone who is compassionate kind caring and will actually care for and about me and only ever getting men who laugh at me mock me call me names gaslit me and will only talk to me for as long as it takes to order a pizza i don't know if im cut out to b a babygirl anymore 

i dont know if im asking to much or what i've been told that im not cut out to be a babygirl that "if you didnt want randoms texting you take down your add LOL" to being told that i'm that desperate that i'll call anyone daddy which is the furthest thing from true its not a crime to want someone in your life is it? to want someone to talk to you and be sincere for once? to still be there when your done taking a shower? it's not normal to check your phone is see the person you thought liked you who told you he enjoyed talking to you blocking and ghosting you is it? 

maybe it's a crime for me to want someone since i'm not poly and I'm looking to be someones one and only girl? am i being punished somehow for being monogamous? is that it? poly people can throw a net and come back with a harem of partners when I can't even find one... maybe i should give up and be poly instead at least ill belong to someone even if i have to be on the bottom of the ladder and share a bed and a life with 10 other people.... better then being a worthless pathetic monogamous girl huh? i was told once that Daddy's don't like to share i guess that was another lie i was told ill add that to the pile...

@sweet baby fox,

Hoping to meet someone who is compassionate, kind, caring, and respectful is a reasonable expectation. If you’re only meeting men who laugh at you, mock you, call you names, gaslight you, and only talk to you “for as long as it takes to order a pizza,” that is absolutely unacceptable.  

For most Daddies, the primary expectations of their little / babygirl are the ability to communicate effectively and the willingness to show respect and take directions.  

Please remember that it’s not unusual for people to change their lifestyle or be poly/monogamous, either temporarily or permanently, due to various reasons, including unique circumstances or personal preferences at the time. Ultimately, changing your preferred lifestyle is entirely your decision, and we, at The Lighthouse Circle, will of course, fully respect it, regardless of the choices you make.  

My advice is to take your time meeting Daddies who inspire you, until you find the one you’ve been looking for, and be happy ever after.

[lil_baby_fox]

yeah i'd have to "meet a daddy" worth knowing who doesnt just want me for sex but that doesnt look like it will ever happen 

[lil_baby_fox]

its funny you those those are the primary expecatations of a little girl because from what i've come to know its more like "be ok with being forced to be bi be willing to be be daddys little whore for all his friends any time he wants it doesnt matter how much you fight and say your a non sexual little be ok with daddy having girlfriends and his girlfriends having girlfriends i mean after all your just a baby you can't do the big things daddy likes cuz sometimes daddy doesnt want to teach you things don't get attached to daddy he will leave you the second someone hotter comes along and get used to crying you'll be doing that alot 

[beanbean]

11 minutes ago, sweet baby fox said:

its funny you those those are the primary expecatations of a little girl because from what i've come to know its more like "be ok with being forced to be bi be willing to be be daddys little whore for all his friends any time he wants it doesnt matter how much you fight and say your a non sexual little be ok with daddy having girlfriends and his girlfriends having girlfriends i mean after all your just a baby you can't do the big things daddy likes cuz sometimes daddy doesnt want to teach you things don't get attached to daddy he will leave you the second someone hotter comes along and get used to crying you'll be doing that alot 

Sometimes it’s hard to find what we are lol for doesn’t mean it’s impossible 

[lil_baby_fox]

i have no idea what that means or why its funny but ....ok

[beanbean]

I was supposed to say it not always going to be easy to find  what we are looking for . 

Edited December 14, 2024 by beanbean

[NR_Daddy]

4 hours ago, sweet baby fox said:

its funny you those those are the primary expecatations of a little girl because from what i've come to know its more like "be ok with being forced to be bi be willing to be be daddys little whore for all his friends any time he wants it doesnt matter how much you fight and say your a non sexual little be ok with daddy having girlfriends and his girlfriends having girlfriends i mean after all your just a baby you can't do the big things daddy likes cuz sometimes daddy doesnt want to teach you things don't get attached to daddy he will leave you the second someone hotter comes along and get used to crying you'll be doing that alot 

Those expectations are not only disrespectful, but also abusive.

I don't know where you are coming across guys like that, but it would be my advice to stay away from there and find somewhere people treat you with the respect and dignity you deserve. I think if @shadowrider found out there were people on this forum acting like that, he would slam down his ban-hammer, and rightly so.

You are valid. Your needs and wants are valid, and you are entitled to respect and dignity. If you would like reassurance, I'd be happy to give that to you.

Edited December 14, 2024 by NR_Daddy

[lil_baby_fox]

oh ok that makes sense

[HopeMuffin]

I’m really sorry to hear about the negative experiences you’ve had with "daddies." It's completely understandable to feel discouraged after encountering so many people who don’t resonate with you. I genuinely wish you nothing but warmth and positivity during this time. 

 

I truly believe that your ideal "daddy" is out there, just taking his time to find you. It can be really tough to keep going when things feel disheartening. If it helps, maybe try journaling your thoughts, chatting with a friend or counselor, or treating yourself to a favorite food. Remember, it's perfectly okay to take a step back from being a baby girl for a while. You can always return to it or find that special someone later on in life. Take care of yourself🫂💞🫂