Feeling lonely

[Kitten415]

I'm tired of feeling lonely and depressed all the time. I don't know how to make friends or date new guys. I struggle to explore my little side without having a daddy to make me feel comfortable and safe. 

[MasterPhotog]

@Kitten415, Although dealing with loneliness and depression can be challenging, there are some simple steps that you may find helpful to start with:

1.  Acknowledge Your Feelings: Accept that feeling lonely or depressed is valid; self-awareness is the first step toward healing.  

2.  Build a Routine: Establish daily habits to create routine and purpose, even in small ways like sleep routine, exercise, meals, or hobbies.  

3.  Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or support groups. Often a simple text or call can help break the isolation and help you feel better.  Activities such as going for a walk help you meet and talk to people that also help us feel better. 

4.  Engage in Activities You Love and Enjoy: Rediscover hobbies or try new ones to find joy and meet like-minded people. 

5.  Practice Self-Compassion: Feel proud of  your good qualities, be kind to yourself and avoid self-criticism. Treat yourself as you would treat a dear friend.  

6.  Volunteer or Help Others: Supporting others can create meaningful connections and help you feel better. 

7.  Consider Professional Help: If feelings persist, consult a professional to explore deeper solutions.  

Feel free to talk about it on this group or reach out to anyone of us that are available to DM. 
Best of luck! Remember . . . you're loved, you're enough, you're special, you don't need to please everyone, you're strong and matter, just as you're, including having your own flaws!
 

[Jeyjey115]

@MasterPhotogThank you very much for this. I struggle with the same things and more. I'll definitely implement these in my life because I'm tired of feeling this way. Thanks again!

[beanbean]

I struggle with loneliness from time to time just got to keep fighting remember your important remember your valuable and that there are people out there that do and that you have to know this as well

[MasterPhotog]

@Jeyjey115 and @beanbean
Although we, as humans, may feel down at times, it's important to remember that we are stronger, better, and have a higher purpose than any temporary setbacks or negative feelings caused by circumstances beyond our control. Therefore, we must motivate ourselves to rise above and help others in similar situations.

[PrincessCarmilla]

I struggle with this myself at times. The lack of a third space these days, a place that isn't home or work but a place that people just hang out without needing money, definitely doesn't help either.

But trying to put yourself out there, like finding an interesting meet-up (not necessarily just kink/little but anything you are interested in like art, reading, etc), and just talking to the friendliest person you find there. That's always helps me and I highly recommend it 

[MasterPhotog]

3 hours ago, PrincessCarmilla said:

I struggle with this myself at times. The lack of a third space these days, a place that isn't home or work but a place that people just hang out without needing money, definitely doesn't help either.

But trying to put yourself out there, like finding an interesting meet-up (not necessarily just kink/little but anything you are interested in like art, reading, etc), and just talking to the friendliest person you find there. That's always helps me and I highly recommend it 

@PrincessCarmilla Thank you for your valuable and insightful advice. It will surely help those struggling with loneliness and low spirits, especially when they are unsure of where to begin. Keep up the good work!

[Kitten415]

12 hours ago, beanbean said:

I struggle with loneliness from time to time just got to keep fighting remember your important remember your valuable and that there are people out there that do and that you have to know this as well

I don't know how to keep fighting. I have no social life. I'm alone and I'm tired 

[beanbean]

10 hours ago, MasterPhotog said:

.it varies I guess I struggle like in the winter because i can fish and mushroom in the summer lol you could put a personal looking for friends as well

[MasterPhotog]

14 hours ago, Kitten415 said:

I don't know how to keep fighting. I have no social life. I'm alone and I'm tired 

@Kitten415 Please take a moment to check out Seven Simple Steps for Making New Friends to see if that would help you get started. Alternatively, you may want to discuss your unique situation, especially what has NOT worked for you. Please keep in mind that a small change in your daily routine maybe just what you need to get started. Please stay strong. Best of luck!

[NR_Daddy]

@Kitten415 Feel free to DM me if you would like a friend to chat to, if that would help. I sent you a request.

Just bare in mind I'm in a different time-zone to you (GMT)

Edited December 9, 2024 by NR_Daddy

[Dangerously_Well]

It is OK to feel the feels!

And it is tough making new friends, so instead of looking for friends, look for people who like to do the things you do, and join a club, or group of similar interests, then you have something to talk about, and don't have to worry about small talk and the like, as the "topic of discussion" is already decided.

From there, friendship might just happen.

Good luck!