teach me to receive pleasure*

[Guest weirdunicorn]

im not good at it. i always want to entertain everyone else as a defense mechanism. it’s a way for me to control the situation. my body won’t allow me to relax enough to enjoy pleasure that is completely centered around me. i need someone who makes me feel very safe and secure to inspire me to let them take the wheel.

[Josey Wales]

What other way is there for a person to just let go if they don’t feel safe and secure ? I think it’s perfectly normal for you to feel the way you do , for many it’s easier to give than receive until trust comes into the picture   

[Guest weirdunicorn]

@Josey WalesI know it’s true but it’s nice to hear someone else say so. thanx ✨

[Josey Wales]

You’re quite welcome !

[kryssi01]

I feel this way too. It often leads to burnout and I get completely overwhelmed. I need to learn how to trust completely and let go.