Affection in LDR DDLG?

[PrincessM_13]

Last night I came to the realization that I want more affection from my daddy. Sadly we are long distance currently. My question to you all in LDR: How do you get your caregiver to show you affection? How do you as a little or how does your little show you affection? 
 

UPDATE: Thank you for all the replies. I did talk to him about it and he said he did miss our cuddle times and that he has been slacking. We are having a date night tonight. 

Edited November 19, 2024 by PrincessM_13

[DaddyRaven]

i always let my girl know how I feel about her; giving her hugs and kisses- cyber but that shows how much I care.  Also, leaving voice messages and things of that nature.  Checking on her to make sure she's well and happy.  

[mittendaddy]

I agree with DaddyRaven's post. I would also add that I show my affection by making sure I pay attention to my little: reminders to limit screen time, reminders to eat and take meds, saying good night and sweet dreams. Small check ins can go a long way in showing someone you're thinking about them.

[Definitiv]

Similar or same to what was said already.

I like to use * * for showing actions. Like things I would do if this was a conversation in person. So when i feel like hugging i do *hugs* and kissing would be *kisses*. Can also be written out in more detail, just describing the actions you would do.

A lot of chatting, checking up on my little. Make sure to be there for her, especially if something happens. Show my affection, send pictures or small voice messages.

[Gambit]

i would also say that for the relationship, you can also just share more of your day with the other person! i was LDR for most of my current engagement and even doing stuff like showing off a new picture you drew/colored, planning to eat dinner or any other mealtime together over video or call, anything like that! show that you want your daddy to be invested in your little creativity and fun! and this benefits your partner, because it gives them a good idea of your day to day life and to give opportunities for play scenarios!

the rest of what other people said is awesome and i agree too! share more of your day with your daddy and it'll be even better. even if it feels silly to give tiny updates, it really does enrich the relationship. and you can slowly ramp it up too, you don't have to start by listing "i'm pouring milk in my cereal" type statements, just give them a little more tastes of your day!

[beanbean]

I like to send and receive pictures of there day just trying to stay as close as possible 

[Brattylilprincess]

We send each other dozen of texts and pictures :3 when I go somewhere I always show him, when something good happens or whatever small detail we share these. Its not always sending pictures but also like texting more about all the small things that are happening in both of your lifes :3

But you can also talk to your Daddy and maybe ask him how you 2 can solve that problem :3 Good nights wishes or even like random small lovey dovey messages are super cute :3 Mine tells me very often how proud he is of me, how happy he is to be with me and be my daddy or whenever I send a pic of myself he always bursts out with the most positive and cute comments on it :3 Sometimes when I feel like i need attention or crave more affection then I just tell him and he tries his best to be there and give me all of that affection I need :3

ohhh and a big thing is voice messages :3 they do help a lot too :3

 

 

Edited November 18, 2024 by Brattylilprincess

[Juju]

Basically I'm reiterating what everyone else has said. All very good advice.  

In my experience, all of these things work, and I also was expected to show where I was at.  It depends on your level of submission and personal need, but we used an app that allowed him to know where I was at all times.  It helped me establish the level of submission that was expected of me, but also it made me feel that he was near by.  Keeping me safe and being accountable.  Not everyone would like this, but for me, it was a great feeling! 

[OuO Alexibaaa]

My marriage started as an LDR!

Daily video calls were filled with silly, but meaningfully deep chatter. And regular irl presents were given on non holidays, especially while I was sick! 🎁