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[Capri]

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Edited January 19 by Capri

[sophieR]

Lol. I get it. I say it's the devil on my shoulder encouraging me to be naughty...

Like I can't help but do it... I love being a good girl but sometimes my inner brat needs to lash out.. I have found it's when I feel upset or rejected though. It also results in reckless behaviour or impulse control.

I've always wondered if it's because I want to be told off to get "big feelings out" as I find it hard processing my emotions so pushes buttons to want to be spanked... But I appreciate the thought of just needing to get my anger out. 

[Josey Wales]

Everyone is unique in their own way ,what works for some doesn’t work for others   A little maintenance spanking wouldn’t hurt if implemented with the idea of releasing anger , stress or frustration or just being playful because 😎. More importantly letting Daddy know what you need and want . Communicate is the key word , knowing each other 

[OuO Alexibaaa]

You're thinking in extremes again.

Experienced soft daddies can set rules and give out punishments for bad behavior too.

[beanbean]

Just be you if you have the right daddy he will be adjust a bit 

[Capri]

13 hours ago, OuO Alexibaaa said:

You're thinking in extremes again.

You know me too well 😝

[Definitiv]

From what I learned talking and interacting with my little.

Sometimes being bratty is just a way to express oneself, other times the little wants attention from the people around them, even if its 'negative' attention. 

What I think is important, is that you find a Daddy that can be both or is willing to try out being both.

[starlie]

hm kind of but for me it’s more of i feel more comfortable sharing my wants and needs. i was also super quiet, caused very little trouble, did whatever was asked of me with little to no protesting even when it hurt me. I got some of what I needed, and a little of what i wanted as a kid, but now as a little i try to give her whatever she wants and encourage her to cry and “make a scene” even if others expect me to be quiet or say im being dramatic. as i explore my little side im starting to think of myself less as a brat because I don’t really want to act out, yeah i like giving people a hard time as a joke occasionally, but i mostly like to live in harmony