Hate it when people judge

[Stujw]

On looks over personality 

[beanbean]

It is the world we live in sadly 

[Little kaiya]

Personally I'm pretty happy if someone openly judges me on my looks versus my personality. It tells me right upfront not to waste my time on them as their values and mine are going to be completely incompatible. Anyone who is going to judge solely on looks is going to lead a very unhappy, unfulfilled and probably lonely life.

[Stujw]

8 minutes ago, beanbean said:

It is the world we live in sadly 

Tell me bout it

[Stujw]

27 minutes ago, Little kaiya said:

Personally I'm pretty happy if someone openly judges me on my looks versus my personality. It tells me right upfront not to waste my time on them as their values and mine are going to be completely incompatible. Anyone who is going to judge solely on looks is going to lead a very unhappy, unfulfilled and probably lonely life.

Good point 

[Aikko]

Unfortunately, it’s almost impossible to not form an opinion of someone’s looks the first time you see them. It’s a natural thing, but when someone uses looks to write a person off or judge them, that’s the problem. I hate when people use a lack of physical attraction as an excuse to not get to know someone. Everyone has their tastes and things they find more attractive than others, but attraction often develops exponentially the more you get to know someone and connect with them on a deeper level. Personally, I appreciate everyone’s looks and love the physical differences in humanity, but in my opinion the body is just a meat suit…the soul and personality are what make a human beautiful, sexy, cute or on the opposite…ugly because they’re mean inside. If you experienced this premature judgement based on your looks, I’m sorry to hear it. Hugs to you!!