Media comforts

[Alonetogth3r]

Hello friends 💞

I don't know about you, but I've always leaned super heavily on different types of media to help with my little needs and now that I haven't been with a partner for a long while it's even more crucial. 

So just wanted to start up a fresh thread about what movies, shows, games, books, music, and so on you are using for comfort lately 🎀

I've personally been listening to a couple of daddy podcasts where I just really love their voice plus Little Bear re-runs haha.

The music in Little Bear is so nice and soothing that I can play it all day long and not get sick of it at all. 

hbu littles? 

-Bee

[Sadie_13]

Hi!!

I haven’t watched little bear in forever I almost forgot about it I’m definitely going to have to watch it again 😊 are there any daddy podcasts you’d recommend? 

I just started watching bluey for the first time and that’s helped bring out my little side more as well as winx. Lately I’ve been enjoying reading ddlg series I’m reading ‘daddies of the shadows’ at the moment and I’m really enjoying it. Although I have to be careful to not overdo it with the books and things because it makes me feel a little lonely that I don’t have a daddy 😅 

 

[sophieR]

I've only read books. Never knew about podcasts. 

As my partner is not accepting of anyone in ddgl lifestyle, I can't have it openly. (Can't even listen to Taylor swift)

[Alonetogth3r]

@Sadie_13 Ooh Winx looks so cute! Now I have to go check it out. 
 

As for podcast, I recently got through most of Daddy AF. He’s a little too poetic sometimes but I liked his perspective on things. Maybe he and his little broke up though? He seems to have just totally disappeared  

[Alonetogth3r]

@sophieR I’m so sorry to hear that! But what do you mean you “can’t” even listen to TF? You should still be able to enjoy your interests even if your partner isn’t accepting. 
 

Also, at least for me, I simply wouldn’t be able to date a partner who couldn’t accept my little side..

[sophieR]

2 hours ago, Alonetogth3r said:

@sophieR I’m so sorry to hear that! But what do you mean you “can’t” even listen to TF? You should still be able to enjoy your interests even if your partner isn’t accepting. 
 

Also, at least for me, I simply wouldn’t be able to date a partner who couldn’t accept my little side.

@Alonetogth3r I've been with her since I was 15.. we both had trauma from childhood. The more we grew the more toxic traits I saw. She will literally say anyone listening to Taylor swift should d*e..

I became used to just bowing my head. She wanted me to seek help as I was withdrawing but when I got help I realised I was reacting to her. Now she hates me, I'm literally scared some nights as she previously tried to st*b me but we are both waiting for us to sell the house so we can divorce. 

During all this is when I found out I'm a little so... Yeah. 

[Alonetogth3r]

@sophieR That sounds traumatic and awful and I'm sending you a massive hug.

Hope you are taking care of yourself the best you can while going through all of that and that you can sell the house ASAP and start a better life. I have had two super LTRs where eventually my partners became toxic and abusive, and there hasn't been a single day where I have regretted ending those relationships. Good riddance!!! x1000!!!

[sophieR]

@Alonetogth3r thanks! I really appreciate it. 😊 I'm being me on here and planning my exit. 

It's good to meet everyone as I'm building my support system. I did add you and happy to chat 🥰

[OuO Alexibaaa]

I'd like to point out that littles don't have to have a partner in order to be little. It's nice to have a partner, fs fs, but it's not mandatory.

When I'm by myself, I'll watch or listen to stuff that encourages my little self. So anything Disney, or even stuff like Kawaii Metal, gets thrown into the mix.

I love Little Bear! ♡

Coloring with crayons is always fun for me too! Also, I have lots and lots of stuffed animals around. The extra eyeballs and smiles help me feel a little less lonely.

[Sadie_13]

7 hours ago, Alonetogth3r said:

@Sadie_13 Ooh Winx looks so cute! Now I have to go check it out. 
 

As for podcast, I recently got through most of Daddy AF. He’s a little too poetic sometimes but I liked his perspective on things. Maybe he and his little broke up though? He seems to have just totally disappeared  

I recently listened to Daddy AF as well! I was thinking the same thing as he hasn’t posted in a while 

[Alonetogth3r]

@Sadie_13 So sad if that's the case. I would still listen to him wax on even if he wasn't partnered, but maybe he's just not feeling as inspired now 🥲

[Sadie_13]

42 minutes ago, Alonetogth3r said:

@Sadie_13 So sad if that's the case. I would still listen to him wax on even if he wasn't partnered, but maybe he's just not feeling as inspired now 🥲

So would I! I haven’t really found any other podcast that I like so was a little sad when I saw there were no more episodes