Would you ever let a little dominate you?

[Capri]

1 hour ago, Alonetogth3r said:

@Capri I see exactly what you're going for, and with some experience as a switch, I do see it as domination. In BDSM I would describe it as a dominant bottom with a submissive top, and in a ddlg context I think it looks like a dynamic where what the little expects is to be pleased and catered to. What little says goes and daddy yields. 

Maybe it's hard for people who don't switch to understand, but in this context it can look like:

-Cg/Daddy being ordered to act like your body guard while out in public. Stand outside the store while you shop, etc. 

-If you live together, greeting you at the door with your favorite warm drink when possible (as an expectation).

-When you just want to play and mess around, acting like your big horsie or doggie ❤️

Whether it lasts as short as an hour, is part of a switch dynamic, or is your core dynamic, I feel like an inherent power imbalance exists there with the little firmly in control. Moreover, I have met cg types in the kink community who would enthusiastically participate in that style of cg/l or ddlg. So anyway I guess my whole point is...yes. Haha 

Love the examples! Unfortunately I haven't seen many daddies that want to play with this idea. I don't think I'd be the type to give rules or be nurturing like a mommy since I'm a little at heart, and don't inherently expect to always get my way, but I love the image of a daddy who would go along with my silly commands just to make me smile. 

Less of a strict dom more of a caregiver type. Heavy on the care. 🤭

[beanbean]

47 minutes ago, Capri said:

Love the examples! Unfortunately I haven't seen many daddies that want to play with this idea. I don't think I'd be the type to give rules or be nurturing like a mommy since I'm a little at heart, and don't inherently expect to always get my way, but I love the image of a daddy who would go along with my silly commands just to make me smile. 

Less of a strict dom more of a caregiver type. Heavy on the care. 🤭

I have siad before it's something if discussed and figured out it out I could maybe do something like that

[Alonetogth3r]

Anyone else kind of tired of willfully ignorant, objectifying, reactionary creeps pretending to be daddies on the internet? Yawn.

[Capri]

23 minutes ago, Tech85nyc said:

Who's stopping you? Nobody. 

The hope that not all caregivers think in that way. 🤭 

If I truly feel like I have no place in the community I'd leave without question, but I like being able to openly talk about dynamics here with understanding people. Being a little is not dependent on me having a daddydom. At least the cute vanilla guy respects me. 🤷‍♀️

[OuO Alexibaaa]

On 11/2/2024 at 10:19 PM, Capri said:

The hope that not all caregivers think in that way. 🤭 

...

He's certainly not a caregiver, and sure as f- isn't a Daddy.

Don't let his fragile ego get to you. He's just upset that the women here are allowed to speak their minds- and openly encouraged to do so.

[sophieR]

On 10/16/2024 at 1:45 PM, Definitiv said:

Lacking experience, I can't say definite yes or no.
But given a specific environment as a reward for a well behaved Little, I could def see that.

Not 24/7 as that would result in a spoiled Little, but def for a evening or day as a reward or after a very stressful week.

Although I would not call it letting the little dominate, but rather spending quality time together and spoiling her( for the moment).

Can confirm serious spoiling going on... *Flutters eyelashes innocently*

@Capri I agree with you on being bold but on my end, I want to be dominated and will push buttons until my daddy pushes back. 🫣😉

[sophieR]

Update .. my daddy was kinda annoyed. Told me I gots to call him daddy only! He's the bestest. 

 

Not going to try it again unless I wants a spanking. Daddy made it into my rules

[El_]

On 10/16/2024 at 12:43 PM, Capri said:

I've been having this fantasy lately of a daddy so enamoured by me that he can't help but do everything I say.  Play with my hair, paint my nails, call me a princess, your angel, say you would do anything for me, I want to be adored and taken care of.  I'd have him wrapped around my little finger.  

Maybe I'm just being a spoiled girl, but tell me, would you ever let a little control you? 😇

I didn't read the two pages, I just stop by to say... where do I sign ? I so want to be controlled by a little princess and care for her as much as she wants. For me that's not incompatible with being a Daddy at all.

[WhiteMountain]

To answer the question. Yeah sure. If she wants to try she can. Otherwise I'll keep being the Dom by default.

[Juju]

I cannot dominate a Dominate.  I have a strong personality and it's not for everyone, but my little is very submissive. I'm a sub to the core. But being submissive doesn't make a person weak, nor does being a Daddy who is submissive a weak Daddy.  It just all boiles down to personality, preference and the two people involved. No one else.  And that's just my happy 2 cents put in! Lol

[Capri]

18 hours ago, El_ said:

I didn't read the two pages, I just stop by to say... where do I sign ? I so want to be controlled by a little princess and care for her as much as she wants. For me that's not incompatible with being a Daddy at all.

No need to read all the fine print just sign on the bottom line hehe 😇😈

[WhiteMountain]

If I can also add something else to my answer, i am only the law enforcer in the relationship, I don't decide them all on my own, if my partner wants something then all power to her to desire it and be vocal about it. Little or not, my masculinity isn't taking a hit because I'm not always being dominant. Tough girls are awesome too

[Capri]

21 minutes ago, WhiteMountain said:

If I can also add something else to my answer, i am only the law enforcer in the relationship, I don't decide them all on my own, if my partner wants something then all power to her to desire it and be vocal about it. Little or not, my masculinity isn't taking a hit because I'm not always being dominant. Tough girls are awesome too

Hmm what does masculinity have to do with dominance anyway? Seems more of a social construct. 

[beanbean]

56 minutes ago, Capri said:

Hmm what does masculinity have to do with dominance anyway? Seems more of a social construct. 

That's what I was thinking just because I cede control in some issues does that really have anything to do with my masculinity 

[WhiteMountain]

Because giving away power is often shamed. I'm only the bringer of news, not the source of the issue. As I said, it's fun for me.

[Capri]

23 minutes ago, WhiteMountain said:

Because giving away power is often shamed. I'm only the bringer of news, not the source of the issue. As I said, it's fun for me.

No shame in power exchange 😊 I don't think it's really news but more internalized social stigma which hopefully changes in the future! 

[beanbean]

10 hours ago, WhiteMountain said:

Because giving away power is often shamed. I'm only the bringer of news, not the source of the issue. As I said, it's fun for me.

It can be shamed I guess I just understand giving a little bit of control does nothing to my manhood