Which One?

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I were going through all of the little stuff I have today as part of our Fall house cleaning. As we went through clothes, stuffues, little books, pacifiers, bottles and more He asked me a question, if you had to choose either having a Daddy or having all the clothes and accessories which would it be. 

For me it was a pretty easy question as accessories are just stuff. What really makes DDlg and being a little meaningful for me is the connection with my partner. Certainly not having accessories and clothes would suck a bit but not having that connection of unconditional love would just hurt too much.

What would you choose?

[LeftyGuitar]

Well while I don't have a mommy yet, I'd pick mommy over the accessories and such. Accessories and such are nice, but the bond is what really counts.

[MasterPhotog]

1 hour ago, Little kaiya said:

My Daddy and I were going through all of the little stuff I have today as part of our Fall house cleaning. As we went through clothes, stuffues, little books, pacifiers, bottles and more He asked me a question, if you had to choose either having a Daddy or having all the clothes and accessories which would it be. 

For me it was a pretty easy question as accessories are just stuff. What really makes DDlg and being a little meaningful for me is the connection with my partner. Certainly not having accessories and clothes would suck a bit but not having that connection of unconditional love would just hurt too much.

What would you choose?

I fully agree with your reply to your Daddy, I'm sure he was proud of you. 

[Sweetcam]

that sound like an obvious choice! 

 

CUTE DINO DRESSES !!! 

[baby belle]

wow what a question to reflect on!  the "accessories" and little stuff to me have filled a place and served their purpose, especially recently.  but would definitely trade that in for a Daddy if made to choose. ^.^  i agree, stuff is just stuff, yes there can be significance to certain things, but personal connection helps cultivate the headspace better than any paci or coloring book would, at least for me!

[beanbean]

3 hours ago, Sweetcam said:

that sound like an obvious choice! 

 

CUTE DINO DRESSES !!! 

Dino dresses are the best 

[HugsR4bears]

Cute dino dresses seem like a close runner up!! 🤣 🦖 but I would prefer to have a daddy as well over things! 

[OuO Alexibaaa]

Mommy, obviously.... better bring me a ponycorn so I can has snuggies even while she's gone!

[Middlespace Brat]

I could definitely see why some Littles would chose the toys/accessories over a caregiver. Some people's Littlespace is for them, and don't want or need a Daddy/Mommy. I would pick my Daddy myself. For me, the toys are more for inducing Littlespace, or making it more fun. Daddy does that anyway AND loves me! ...and tells me I'm pretty heehee. :3

[Capri]

My stuffies would never abandon me 🥰🧸 (has trust issues and never felt unconditional love from a daddy figure yet) 

[lil Mo]

Stuff in comparison of a person, especially a Daddy..? Well the Daddy of course..

BUT my favorite stuffie Stitchie in comparison to a Daddy?? Oh uh.. way harder.. 

Uhm.. if he made me choose between him and Stitchie..? Stitchie would win becauee Stitchie wouldn't make me choose..