Can little age change based on state of submission?

[Capri]

I've been having a hard time determining my little age since it feels very fluid, but I got this idea that my state of regression might be tied to my state of submissiveness. It's too flexible to put into one specific age.

An independent adult woman 

A bratty middle who wants to rebel and cause trouble

A little princess who wants to be pampered and called a good girl

A baby girl completely regressed with a paci in her mouth and fully in the care of Daddy 

Maybe they are all sides of myself.  I think the more trusting and comfortable I become around this figurative Daddy who soothes me into littlespace, I can slowly regress to the point of total submission in a baby-like state for a period of time.  Possibly all the way to becoming nonverbal, but I have yet to experience that.  It's just a hypothesis rn. 

Does it make sense or is my thinking strange? 

[LunaLilac]

I think having a fluid little age makes sense, I know I'm like that myself. For me it tends to depend on how safe and comfortable I feel, like I'm able to let down my guard more and let more of myself out because I feel safe to do so.

I think if it's similar, it has to do with how much we subconsciously  can allow ourselves to feel vulnerable, like a trust thing and exposing our deeper inner self tour our partner.

[Liamo]

That makes complete sense to me. From my experience BDSM play is always fluid. On one end we like to push the envelope and try new boundaries. On the other, I have had a few times the experience of having a lot more "vanilla" sex and less BDSM play the closer I got with my partner. Also, the closer to each other we got, the more mind games and the less physical games were played. Anyway, in my BDSM world it is my responsibility to please my sub and keep her on her toes at the same time. For that, I have to be paying close attention to her evolution, needs and desires. A good Daddy never forgets that it is a little who chose the Daddy that will chose her. 

[OuO Alexibaaa]

This entirely makes sense to me! I think maybe you're over thinking about it. Buuuuut I know how easy it is to over analyze ourselves.

 

[LunaLilac]

Overanalysing oneself is very easy to do, I think once again it goes beck to not needing to focus on the titles specifically, and just discovering and celebrating who we are.

A glass may shape the water it holds, but it does not define, or change the water itself.

[Capri]

@OuO Alexibaaa @LunaLilac 

You're absolutely right that I am overanalyzing and overthinking things but thank you for entertaining my late night rambles hehe. I tend to do that a lot 🤭 I wrote this thread at 3am while thinking out loud. 

This is also why I need someone who is able to turn my brain off and get me to fall asleep peacefully. 🤣 Or at least have my phone locked on parental control to not be online so late. A little left unattended and straying too far from littlespace will get a bad headache from thinking too much!

[LunaLilac]

I totally get that myself I'm 24 hour panic attacks, because I'm too much in my own head and I just need someone to help ground me.

[Capri]

2 minutes ago, LunaLilac said:

I totally get that myself I'm 24 hour panic attacks, because I'm too much in my own head and I just need someone to help ground me.

Anxiety buddies 🥹🫂💕

[OuO Alexibaaa]

@Capri You're over analyzing yourself for sure, buuuuuuuut there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. We all do it from time to time! It's an inevitable part of human existence.

Annnnnnnd

Don't be so hard on yourself! Because littles are technically adults, it's totally fine to be unattended at 3am. 🤣

[Capri]

6 minutes ago, OuO Alexibaaa said:

@Capri You're over analyzing yourself for sure, buuuuuuuut there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. We all do it from time to time! It's an inevitable part of human existence.

Annnnnnnd

Don't be so hard on yourself! Because littles are technically adults, it's totally fine to be unattended at 3am. 🤣

Yeahh not exactly the healthiest lifestyle for an adult to have either though 😂 it's totally fine but is it really? 

[HugsR4bears]

I haven’t really thought about an exact age but as others said it’s pretty fluid for me too. For me it’s an emotional state, I feel youngest when I’m really stressed, somewhat bratty but a sub still if I’m happy, and maybe a middle most other times 

 

[BabyPowederDreams]

5 hours ago, Capri said:

I've been having a hard time determining my little age since it feels very fluid, but I got this idea that my state of regression might be tied to my state of submissiveness. It's too flexible to put into one specific age.

An independent adult woman 

A bratty middle who wants to rebel and cause trouble

A little princess who wants to be pampered and called a good girl

A baby girl completely regressed with a paci in her mouth and fully in the care of Daddy 

Maybe they are all sides of myself.  I think the more trusting and comfortable I become around this figurative Daddy who soothes me into littlespace, I can slowly regress to the point of total submission in a baby-like state for a period of time.  Possibly all the way to becoming nonverbal, but I have yet to experience that.  It's just a hypothesis rn. 

Does it make sense or is my thinking strange? 

So you can definitely change based on like how you regressed and or how the other person is regressing you CG,Daddy. The way you described it they can be all sides of you! Just bundled up into one package. This is actually a good thing because you can have multiple dualities and I mean as, Sometimes your a middle that day. Maybe at night you regress even further into a baby state. On one day you can be more bratty. They kind of just mesh together. Its good to be like this also because you don't get stuck with one mode. If you can separate them and fulfill what makes you happy not just for you but a CG/Daddy then its a very good dynamic tbh. When littles get stuck in one mind set and don't explore other ways of regression then it kind of is bland at least to me anyways! 

[OuO Alexibaaa]

53 minutes ago, Capri said:

Yeahh not exactly the healthiest lifestyle for an adult to have either though 😂 it's totally fine but is it really? 

I mean, we're not hurting anybody...

*side eyes LilTot community*

So while it might technically not be the healthiest lifestyle, I'd rather be doing this than rage quitting at the expense of others.

Like...

being a Karen at a customer service... that poor Walmart manager doesn't get paid enough!

But I do understand your point of view. At what point does drinking become alcoholism? I think it varies from person to person.

I admit that drunk Karen isn't the best of examples, but I think the metaphor gets my pov across decently enough. 😅

[LunaLilac]

1 hour ago, Capri said:

Anxiety buddies 🥹🫂💕

Panic Pals! <3

[weirdunicorn]

i have sometimes wondered the same thing. i identify as more of a middle and am not I to a lot of little stuff but maybe that’s bc i don’t have a safe space to fully regress….