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Recently I talked with someone and they told me my desires are “unrealistic”. Multiple times I had to remind them not to get sexual with me when I was in little space (which they multiple times assured me they never would, but they attempted.) it felt like the responsibility of conversation was solely on my shoulders. I’m sure this person is nice when they find the one that will work for them. But if someone disagreeing with you prompts that kind of response from you, or them setting boundaries causes radio silence, well, I’d recommend evaluating your actions. 

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If someone isn't respecting your boundaries after you've made them clear, that is a huge red flag to get out of there.

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8 minutes ago, LunaLilac said:

If someone isn't respecting your boundaries after you've made them clear, that is a huge red flag to get out of there.

I agree. Twice in the span of less than an hour and then I basically stopped replying when I was in little space. They left me without replying for several hours and then eventually over a day. I’m not sad or hurt, just needed to vent. 

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Your desires aren't unrealistic and you're valid. 

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1 minute ago, OuO Alexibaaa said:

Your desires aren't unrealistic and you're valid. 

Thank you 😊 I needed that reminder.

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@scarletbabygirl Unfortunately, there's a lot of fragile men out there, who can't handle being told no. I'm sorry that happened to you, but am glad that you seem safe.

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1 minute ago, OuO Alexibaaa said:

@scarletbabygirl Unfortunately, there's a lot of fragile men out there, who can't handle being told no. I'm sorry that happened to you, but am glad that you seem safe.

Yeah. I’m kicking myself for not seeing the signs sooner, but it is what it is. 

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1 minute ago, OuO Alexibaaa said:

@scarletbabygirl No, don't be hard on yourself. Use the experience to help you avoid it again in the future! ♡

Thank you! I sent you a friend request. You seem really nice and I’d love to chat! 

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1 minute ago, scarletbabygirl said:

Thank you! I sent you a friend request. You seem really nice and I’d love to chat! 

I genuinely try to be a decent individual, so thank you! And I accepted! ♡ > u<

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1 minute ago, Liamo said:

Do not just walk away from that type of situation. RUN away. 

100% 

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