Unaccompanied Little Needs Help

[LittleMisses]

Hiii littles/middles

i have no daddy or CG and I’m struggling with my daily chores/tasks. Like I forget to brush my teeth in the morning or I don’t drink enough water ect 

how do you more experienced littles who don’t have a DD/CG get things done with no one making sure you’re eating your veggies ??? Please send advice I need it (also by more experienced- I mean than me- as I have little to no experience)

thanks 

[Sammykins]

Give yourself a reward system! It can be either daily or weekly but gives you something to look forward to if you get your things done. I am a huge coffee drinker so if I did all my chores/eating/water/etc I can get a coffee on my next adventure or pick out a new mug! PS I have way to many haha 

[LunaLilac]

This is something I would have an interest in as well, I've got a memory disorder so I forget to eat and other basic things kind of often.

[Liamo]

How about setting reminders in your cell phone or Alexa if you have one. My son suffered a terrible brain injury. 3 months in the coma, 9 months in the hospital. Still going to rehab. He uses this to remind himself to do what he needs to do. And slowly his memory improves.

Or you could ask one of the Daddies here to send you daily reminders. I am sure you would have no difficulties finding one willing to take on that task. 

[PrincessEliana]

I'm in the same boat as you! The reward system doesn't work for me as I will just skip to the reward lol. 

[LittleMisses]

7 hours ago, Sammykins said:

Give yourself a reward system! It can be either daily or weekly but gives you something to look forward to if you get your things done. I am a huge coffee drinker so if I did all my chores/eating/water/etc I can get a coffee on my next adventure or pick out a new mug! PS I have way to many haha 

I have about 3 dozen coffee mugs… it’s not a problem it’s a collection 

[LittleMisses]

6 hours ago, LunaLilac said:

This is something I would have an interest in as well, I've got a memory disorder so I forget to eat and other basic things kind of often.

Lol yes! I have ADHD and forget to do a lot of things and so I need someone to heellp

[LittleMisses]

5 hours ago, Liamo said:

How about setting reminders in your cell phone or Alexa if you have one. My son suffered a terrible brain injury. 3 months in the coma, 9 months in the hospital. Still going to rehab. He uses this to remind himself to do what he needs to do. And slowly his memory improves.

Or you could ask one of the Daddies here to send you daily reminders. I am sure you would have no difficulties finding one willing to take on that task. 

Not a bad idea!!! Thank you 

[LittleMisses]

3 hours ago, PrincessEliana said:

I'm in the same boat as you! The reward system doesn't work for me as I will just skip to the reward lol. 

I totally would not stick to it unless someone made me

[Daddycares4u]

Hey,

A similar idea could be, a sticky note system, find yourself a surface that you know you will look at every day perhaps a mirror, and stick reminders on it.

[PrincessEliana]

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[PrincessEliana]

7 hours ago, LittleMisses said:

I totally would not stick to it unless someone made me

Exactly! So what can we do? I thought about finding a caregiver.... just like a platonic power exchange situation while we each find our ideal partner...like good friends who care for each other but everyone I've met is.... if there is no sex whats the point? I was really hopping DDlg would be a lot less sex focused. I agree its important but I think its also important to have relationships that don't have a "well what do I get out of this" mentality. I have those but I guess not specifically with a Dom. Its tricky cause we wont always get something out of everyone. Since covid I've been quiet saddened by all this. 

[LittleMisses]

6 hours ago, Daddycares4u said:

Hey,

A similar idea could be, a sticky note system, find yourself a surface that you know you will look at every day perhaps a mirror, and stick reminders on it.

Yeah. I’ll definitely try it 

[LittleMisses]

3 hours ago, PrincessEliana said:

Exactly! So what can we do? I thought about finding a caregiver.... just like a platonic power exchange situation while we each find our ideal partner...like good friends who care for each other but everyone I've met is.... if there is no sex whats the point? I was really hopping DDlg would be a lot less sex focused. I agree its important but I think its also important to have relationships that don't have a "well what do I get out of this" mentality. I have those but I guess not specifically with a Dom. Its tricky cause we wont always get something out of everyone. Since covid I've been quiet saddened by all this. 

Thats sad but you do see a lot of that. Just haven’t found the right one. It will happen eventually 

[little locket]

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Hi's, I used to struggle with doing chores and daily care before I met my Daddy. I gots this reward jar thing. It helped and I made chart to helps track what I did and what reward would be for all stars. You can empty stars out at end of day to start over for next day too. 

Do's that help? 

[AdorableNancyDrew]

23 hours ago, LittleMisses said:

Hiii littles/middles

i have no daddy or CG and I’m struggling with my daily chores/tasks. Like I forget to brush my teeth in the morning or I don’t drink enough water ect 

how do you more experienced littles who don’t have a DD/CG get things done with no one making sure you’re eating your veggies ??? Please send advice I need it (also by more experienced- I mean than me- as I have little to no experience)

thanks 

It’s random, but I used to think of it less as tasks and more like “what would they be proud of me for completing today?” …then basically living up to those imaginary expectations. 

[EllieTheHauntedStarship]

I pretend I'm on the Enterprise and if I show up for my shift unprofessional then it's not good. Another idea: pretend I'm in an apocalypse and I don't want to be mistaken for a Z.

Will this work for everyone? No. But it works for me. 

Slightly different: I think George St Clair (znation) would be a good caregiver, so I pretend she's helping me out. Don't know if this would be helpful tho, coz it might make folks lonelier to pretend a character (imaginary friend?) is helping them out.

[LittleMisses]

On 10/6/2024 at 9:50 AM, EllieTheHauntedStarship said:

I pretend I'm on the Enterprise and if I show up for my shift unprofessional then it's not good. Another idea: pretend I'm in an apocalypse and I don't want to be mistaken for a Z.

Will this work for everyone? No. But it works for me. 

Slightly different: I think George St Clair (znation) would be a good caregiver, so I pretend she's helping me out. Don't know if this would be helpful tho, coz it might make folks lonelier to pretend a character (imaginary friend?) is helping them out.

Good ideas!!

[starlie]

my memory is poopy garbage but i write everything down, use a planner, I have a shared calendar with my family and we schedule everything, whiteboards are amazing too because you can check off things as you go and put whatever you want on it, and when all else fails, i set an alarm labeled with what im supposed to remember with a sound that I don’t necessarily like but also on that isn’t infuriating

[samar_]

Drinking water is a problem I have that I noticed when I was in middle school, and now I have a water bottle next to me wherever I go in the house so I make sure to drink and fill it up. As for vegetables, I am weak in body so I tell myself that I need To all that is good and beneficial to me,  I eat what I like and prefer first. and I deserve this as an appreciation for myself, which I love.