I don't need a Daddy

[Capri]

New revelations:

I want a Daddy but I don't need a Daddy. 

Got interested in DDlg when I was in a bad mental headspace and thought having a caregiver Daddy might solve all my problems.  Someone who would take care of me, make all the decisions for me, and let me live as a happy little princess forever.  It sounds lovely, right? 

The real world is not so sweet of course. I think I've started to become disenchanted by the fantasy. The more I connect with potential "daddies" out there, the more I realize these are just men with their own problems they're trying to deal with/run away from.  Some want a little girl to have a sense of control in their life, some want one for pleasure, and others maybe to fill a void. 

Taking care of my mental health, learning to love myself, and accomplishing things on my own as an independent adult made me discover that I don't really need a Daddy after all. I'm pretty happy! 

Even though I am still a little, I am a little because I like it! I think I'm learning to parent my little self on my own in a way.

Having a Daddy in the future would be nice, but it's not a necessity. I might even be okay with a vanilla guy who is accepting of my little side. Or no guy at all for that matter! 

Maybe I'm just getting tired of the desperate "daddies" out there, or I haven't met the right Daddy yet, but eh. I wanted to let out these thoughts somewhere. 

Remember that you have everything you need. Don't let anyone confuse your wants and needs. Thanks for reading! 

[Suzanneuk]

When u meet the right "daddie" you will know everything will make sense, but for now don't settle for anything less than perfect......

[Capri]

1 hour ago, Suzanneuk said:

When u meet the right "daddie" you will know everything will make sense, but for now don't settle for anything less than perfect......

The thing is, perfect doesn't exist 😅

but I guess I'll keep an eye out just in case! 

[Suzanneuk]

your perfect will exsist but it may just take a while to find him.....dont worry he is out there somewhere. 

Just playing hide and seek without telling you first. meanie 🤣🤣

[Capri]

7 minutes ago, Suzanneuk said:

your perfect will exsist but it may just take a while to find him.....dont worry he is out there somewhere. 

Just playing hide and seek without telling you first. meanie 🤣🤣

hahaha if you say so! 😆 

[Little kaiya]

I personally don't believe in perfect partners but I will say that my where and when I found my Daddy was definitely a surprise but one that has worked out for almost 7 years and is leading to marriage  💗💗💗

[Suzanneuk]

And I bet he is perfect to u just the way he is I'm so glad u have found your forever after.....it's so lovely 😍 👌 

[Liamo]

You said it well Capri. You should not need anyone or anything to be happy. I am a Daddy for sure, and i am looking to be with a true little / sub female who embraces who she is. However, just like you I do not need her to be happy. Happiness always comes from within. I will never forget the words of wisdom of my anatomy-physiology teacher years ago. "If you are not happy with what you have. you will never be happy with what you get." It is not always an easy lesson to master. I have been mostly single for the past 13 years, with the occasional dating bouts. You are having a hard time meeting the man of your life, it is not easy finding your one true love. When you do, it does not matter if he is vanilla or an expert in the DDLG community. He will rise to the occasion and give you and love you the way you want to be loved. And there are other ways to live the lifestyle without the props and bells. Women in general are submissive, and want a real man to take care of them. Is it not in a way DDLG? I recommend you focus on yourself, be the best person you can be. Learn what you want to learn. Participate in activities that fulfil you. This way you will meet and attract a man who share your wants and values. Any man who truly fall in love with you will have no problem becoming your Daddy.

I am doing exactly that to attract in my life a little who does not have mental issues. I want a little who is a strong woman, and who will want me to mentor her to reach all her aspirations. A real strong woman in public, oozing of femineity, who becomes my little at home or when she needs it.

[beanbean]

This is a great take and way to look at it if it happens fine but Don't try to kake it happen so bad you ignore red flags

[weirdunicorn]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[Soleil]

I'm a little boy, so I'm not sure if I'm allowed to comment (I apologise if I'm not), but a revelation I've had is that caregivers don't define and make us who we are—we do! Sure, having one would be sooo good, but as others have pointed out, it's not worth ignoring red flags just to have a caregiver in your life. Hopefully, though, us single Pringles can one day find our own caregiver to love and be loved by!

[Capri]

6 hours ago, Soleil said:

I'm a little boy, so I'm not sure if I'm allowed to comment (I apologise if I'm not), but a revelation I've had is that caregivers don't define and make us who we are—we do! Sure, having one would be sooo good, but as others have pointed out, it's not worth ignoring red flags just to have a caregiver in your life. Hopefully, though, us single Pringles can one day find our own caregiver to love and be loved by!

Of course anyone is allowed to comment! Single Pringle life is not so bad 😆

[babydollmira]

This is so true! I’m tired of searching for a “daddy” I’ve become content being little on my own, and as a Christian God has helped me in many ways! But now I’m just interested in a regular ol relationship, vanilla or not, I’d be content with a man who knows where he stands and is doing his best to keep at it. If that means I have to wait a while or even years I really will be just fine haha! Well said friend thanks for this reminder 💞