first experiences ☆

[starlie]

i love reading about people’s first experiences with dd/lg. this is my favorite that I’ve come across so far: 

https://www.reddit.com/r/littlespace/s/uRtpdGI2Zu

 

i read it when i want to remind myself that it’s possible to find exactly what i’m looking for. if anyone wants to share their first experience with their caregiver or little one (no pressure!) i’d love to hear about it

[Princ3ss-Baby-Bear]

As much as I’d love to have a happy or nice first experience to share none of mine have ever been a good one not my first Dom or my First “Daddy” but definitely be interesting to see if others were more lucky

[Huggybear]

Mine was quite boring, it was over a phonecall and suddenly i was told im a textbook daddy followed by a question "have you ever been a daddy before?". Im like... What? No, never had kids and definately never had them die on me :3...". Short chat about terminology regarding to DDLG later I was neck deep in research, ended up going to tumblr as most I found came from there at the time and so it started.

It was LDR and the girl in question was young and only liked the idea sexually as it was hot to her to call an older guy Daddy. I wanted way more the more I learned, and it was clear our likes didnt match afterall.

First ever DDLG relationship lasted a bit over a year and I was SUCH a noob to it and especially harder BDSM. I was also a virgin which I was ashamed of, so little experience all around. I guess I was lucky cause she was more experienced and taught me many good things. Sadly that relationship had an unhealthy amount of attachement anxiety and I was too much of an empath to make limits for my own mental health, so it was a short-ish burn. I dont regret it though, I learned alot about my newfound love for the kink aswell as about myself :).

[daisy_cat]

My very first encounter with ddlg is kinda embarrassing 🙈 buuuuuut I think it's funny too so I wanna tell!

With my first and only ever bf, I was teasing him about something while he was driving. I think it was that he got our date time wrong so he showed up an hour early? Anyways, I was teasing him about that and he suddenly pulled into a carlot, parked the car, and told me to get out before getting out himself.

I was so confused but I got out as well. He then proceeded to tickle me relentlessly. Without warning, I yelled at him while laughing "Stop Daddy!" 

Needless to say, that shut him right up. 😅 I apologized profusely, saying I have no idea where that came from and he said "Oh, you have a Daddy kink?" I was embarassed and confused and he just laughed and told me to look it up later.

That night after my date, I was too nervous to look it up but years later after reading g a romance book w/ ddlg, I finally looked it up. And here I am!🎉

[LunaLilac]

I've yet to have a first experience with the dynamic, because I've not had someone whose accepted this side of me. But I've always been a regressor, as a coping mechanism for the overwhelming amount of anxiety I felt my whole life, and for me I think the two go hand in hand.

[starlie]

4 hours ago, LunaLilac said:

I've yet to have a first experience with the dynamic, because I've not had someone whose accepted this side of me. But I've always been a regressor, as a coping mechanism for the overwhelming amount of anxiety I felt my whole life, and for me I think the two go hand in hand.

same for me, im also a regressor and it’s not something i can always control. i’ve had an experience with someone who claimed to be a daddy but he really wasn’t. but since being a regressor and a little is so interlinked, im hesitant to show anyone my little side bc it’s so personal and it wasn’t received well in the past. hopefully we’ll both find someone who accepts us for who we are ❤️

[LunaLilac]

2 hours ago, littlebvnni said:

same for me, im also a regressor and it’s not something i can always control. i’ve had an experience with someone who claimed to be a daddy but he really wasn’t. but since being a regressor and a little is so interlinked, im hesitant to show anyone my little side bc it’s so personal and it wasn’t received well in the past. hopefully we’ll both find someone who accepts us for who we are ❤️

yeah that's about right for me too, I haven't really found someone who wants me in general, but hopefully we keep putting ourselves out there and we're found by real caring individuals.

[Little kaiya]

Honestly it's been so long I can't say that I really remember and we've shared so many more experiences together since. It's over 18 years since my Wife and I had our first Mommy and little experience together. For my Daddy and I it's been over 7 years so again difficult to say exactly what our first experience was. I will say more recent experiences are more memorable for us as we learned more about each other and grew closer together.