how to properly get attention from daddy?

[daddysbabygirlvonnie]

I am a middle and lately I have been feeling neglected affection wise from my caregiver. I tried causing a scene and acting as a brat but that only backfired. What are some ways I can encourage affection? Also, yes I have communicated that I need a lil more love and reassurance but nothing much has changed. Any advice?

[Huggybear]

This is a tough one.

One of my past mistakes was being distant when I had problems that I was dealing with but not sharing. Is it possible he is withdrawn because of real life issues that might not be visible for you?

Relationships have ebb and flow when it comes to finding or creating time together. Are you comfortable taking charge of that while he feels passive, or have you already perhaps tried that?

Pillow talk is usually one of the best places to connect. At night time defences come down and that might be a good place to try to reach into him, face to face, opening up in a non-judgemental way.

Good luck!

[Little kaiya]

Creating a scene to try and address a relationship issue is rarely effective because the line between roleplay and real issues becomes blurred. 

Sitting down as adults outside of a scene allows for a discussion of needs, expectations and what happens if those things can't be met for both parties. 

You can ask for things but you can't make another party give them unfortunately. If you have discussions and nothing changes now it is highly unlikely to change in the future.

[Liamo]

I would recommend giving your CG extra attention. If he/she does not respond within a few days, I would think there is a deeper issue.