I’m 19. Are there any caregivers and Littles that are around my age?

[Littleangelxx]

Hi, I am 19 and I’m looking for little space friends and possibly find a caregiver along the way I’ve been struggling because all the guys that reach out or want to possibly be. My caregiver are old enough to be my biological father‘s age or older no hate towards caregivers around those ages, but I would like to have a caregiver around my age  18 to 21 of age I feel like it’s even harder to find friends and a caregiver on here especially with the huge age gaps. I don’t know if I’m the one struggling with this or not, but I hope to find some amazing friends and possibly caregiver along the way that at least is around my age.

[shadowrider]

Sounds like you need to post ads in our Friends Zone and Personals sections.

And I would suggest putting a line stating your age limits above and below your ad text. I would also use a larger possibly bold text in a different color to grab the reader's attention. Sometimes that's what it takes to get a point across.

Good luck on your search.

[ReneeRock]

I know exactly what youre saying. And…. hi.👋 

[Huggybear]

Hey there!

Caregivers age can be a bit of a double-edged sword.

On one hand, an aspiring CG of young age can be wonderful because low age gap allows the opportunity to learn together. Having said that, its extremely rare to find a person that has the emotional maturity and life-skills, long-term plans, income and experience that a really Good CG is expected to have. DDLG might be a kink, but a CG is still effectively taking care of another human being, atleast to some extent - and that is a really demanding task.

The other edge is that a young "dom" can be risky too. Boys in their hormone high's who have gotten their experience from porn can seem like they know what theyre doing on paper, but can be very dangerous in a power-exhange dynamic. Its not the case for everyone of course, and dont get me wrong, there are plenty of predators in every age group - but if youre seeking a truly trustworthy, calm and experienced dominant man, you might need to broaden your standards a bit or just wait a few years (which is not at all a bad idea - If I was in charge BDSM in general would have atleast an age limit of 21+).

Older men tend to have that experience, or atleast potentially do. It might sound crazy but some of the best daddies/doms are often well in their 20ties before they feel theyre even remotely ready to seek any kind of BDSM Relationship, and that is a sign of a responsible person who takes this kink seriously.

Then there are the people who dont even know what they are yet. I was 25 or smthing when I even learned the terms DDLG or Daddy etc. Add 2-3 years and I had to guts to actually take responsibility of someone. And even with preparation and study, its still trial and error from there.

Best advice I can give you is wait with kink-relationships until youre older if age-gap feels uncomfortable, Or if you do seek and find someone - make sure you vet them THOROUGHLY and potentially have them talk to more experienced caregives. Also, dont stop studying yourself either.

In any case, you got time, so stay safe out there

[Sunflowery]

Umm hii.. i understand what you're saying.. i am 18 and would like to be your little space friend hehe..

[Liamo]

I do not see how you can be a good Dom at 19. At that age you do not know who you are and what you truly want in life. You most likely lack life experience. I was very lucky. At 19 I met a wonderful 32 year old sub who topped from the bottom. She taught me a lot on how to be a good Dom. Also, even if I lost my virginity at 19, I had already well over 10 years of intense reading on the subject, including a very good understanding of anatomy and physiology. Interestingly enough, I have been an anatomy/physiology professor for the past 13 years. That topic has always fascinated me. This being said, nothing stops you from meeting someone around your age, and you both embark on a journey of discovery. The key would be to meet someone curious, non judgmental and open minded.